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I just passed a church whose sign said, " Empty cradle? Empty Christmas.". WTH?
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Re: church sign

  • What?! Okay let's hope that they meant something to do with the nativity scene, maybe the whole "taking Christ out of Christmas" concept?

    I can't believe a church would be so harsh as to mean that having no kids means your Christmas will suck. Yeah, we know Sad

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  • LOL!!

    That is pretty much how I feel though. Sad

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    What?! Okay let's hope that they meant something to do with the nativity scene, maybe the whole "taking Christ out of Christmas" concept?

    I can't believe a church would be so harsh as to mean that having no kids means your Christmas will suck. Yeah, we know Sad

    I agree with itsmegin...WTH?!

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  • It means if Jesus weren't born (empty cradle) than there would be no meaning to Christmas (empty Christmas).  Unfortunately the message lacks proper delivery! 
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  • imagejinx75:
    It means if Jesus weren't born (empty cradle) than there would be no meaning to Christmas (empty Christmas).  Unfortunately the message lacks proper delivery! 

    Agreed.  Maybe just change the word cradle to manger.

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  • Ouch...That is harsh. I don't think I could have seen that sign without bursting into tears.
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  • imageravenorchid:
    Ouch...That is harsh. I don't think I could have seen that sign without bursting into tears.

    Agreed!  I don't think I could have seen that sign without knocking on someone's door and delivering some harsh words of my own. 

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  • imageravenorchid:
    Ouch...That is harsh. I don't think I could have seen that sign without bursting into tears.

    Agreed!  I don't think I could have seen that sign without knocking on someone's door and delivering some harsh words of my own. 

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  • imagecarrieandtim:

    imagejinx75:
    It means if Jesus weren't born (empty cradle) than there would be no meaning to Christmas (empty Christmas).  Unfortunately the message lacks proper delivery! 

    Agreed.  Maybe just change the word cradle to manger.

    I was thinking the same thing about word usage.  It just really threw me off while I was driving.  For someone in our situation, the word choice was really sucky on their part!

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