Im very new to having 2u2 and i havent quite adjusted yet; Im finding it very hard to cope with. I know that LO#2 wont really be able to be on a "schedule" being that he's not even a month old but i was wondering what your day was like. It seems that DS#2 is completely messing up DS#1's schedule. DS#1 would always go to bed around 9pm and wake up at 9am and take a good 1-2 hour nap during the day, well now my poor baby isnt getting anymore than 8 hours of sleep at night bc DS#2 wakes him up all day and night. DS#1 seems to be sleeping less, eating less and whining/crying more. Im at a loss here...im just very upset b/c i feel bad for DS#1 - this just doesnt seem fair to him.
Re: please tell me what your schedule is like...
YES - white noise. Once #2 gets on a bit of a better schedule...he'll be taking three naps a day - and you can time it so that the middle nap is at the same time (or right around the time) as your DS#1...so it feels easy then!
Don't use a radio - that's a stimulant....use white noise. We have a white noise machine in both of their rooms and a big loud fan in the hallway going all the time.
I'd do whatever you can to make sure everyone is getting as much sleep at possible. Everyone will be MUCH happier.