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TTC After a Loss
~*~*~Ladies in waiting*~*~*~
This is group designed for all the ladies in the various stages of waiting after a loss: waiting to miscarry, waiting for AF to arrive, waiting to TTC again, and waiting for BFP. I post every Tuesday and Thursday afternoon.
*Since this process is such a true test in patience, it is nice to have the support and friendship of other women going through similar experiences and emotions. As people go through the heartache of losses, I have found either it strengthens their relationship with God or it makes it harder. I would love to help you in anyway that I can to find the strength. I found that it really helped me pull through.
*If you would like to be added to the list please post current TTC status. There will be a daily question, a place for prayer requests and a daily inspirational verse. I purge this list every now and again, so if I?ve added you before but you don?t see your name now, just let me know!
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Good afternoon ladies! I will try to post over the break, but today is my last day of work and I?ll have limited internet access. I?ll see what I can do though 
Izabella22 ? how did the consult go with the new OB? Abby7 ? how did your surgery go? Babes12 ? looking forward to hearing what you learn from the RE!!
Welcome to blueberries8 and nicole153 who are both new to the group. I?m sorry for both of your losses and all that you have been through. I know you?ll find some great support and friends here and I hope you find our graduates list very soon!
God Bless!!!
Upcoming events:
12/17 ? Izabella22?s consult with new OB
12/20 ? Abby7?s surgery to remove uterine septum
12/21 ? Babes12 consulation with RE
Inspirational Verse: Ephesians 3:20 - Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us,
Prayer Request/s: (new requests in red)
- The girls that are currently going through a loss. Including the ones that are coming back from PgAL L
- The girls on PL board that sadly join us daily.
- All the new BFP ladies ? that they have sticky babies and a H&H 9 months!
- Some of our graduates are getting very close to their EDDs. Lets pray for their deliveries to go smoothly
Question of the day: Do you have a favorite Christmas song?
Ladies in waiting to Try again.. Abby7 Surgery for uterine septum removal on 12/20 Arlee0711 waiting for AF AshB62 Taking a break Autumnmh1 waiting one more cycle then ttc BelovedCarmel Waiting for AF bsgirl143 TTC after returning to England CakesABake waiting till Jan to ttc EmeraldEyedLady waiting until Jan to ttc Firefightersgal Pursuing adoption Gaberinos Waiting 2 cycles then ttc! HappyLaLa0914 waiting two more cycles then ttc itsmegin Waiting for AF then ttc! Izabella22 Waiting 1 cycle then ttc jenn5710 waiting to ttc in Jan! Kristin&Adam waiting for AF Lindsey8301 waiting for AF linz85 (Lindsey) waiting until May to ttc mellymel12 waiting till Feb to ttc millejj1 ttc break Mugsy2008 mundayem waiting for AF noahbear On break till Oct 2011 Pachita waiting Shawnly82 waiting till Jan to ttc smallfry5909 Waiting for December then ttc! Tapatio Waiting to ttc in Feb! tashaobrien Waiting for greenlight vinceandang waiting for AF zanymermaid Adopting Ladies waiting to O ala_1220 Ann003 asltrouble Aubs13 awesome-sauce Babes12 (Melissa) bananarama91 betsy-griff blueberries8 IUI #3 brian's_wife Carolee Clomid cflocco cutebride73 Natural cycle Deepak&Derek DoingItRight Femera and waiting for AMH results Dondraandluis (Dondra) Fififa21 Gilgenbach2007 jetskreemr jmhuff jolieandscott Junebug060609 la*bella*vita IUI #3 laurc marriedtoeric mary548 mypeanut22 nbbride06 pineapple0726 raeg13 Rjl07 IVF rvandiver0705 shelshel79 SheriBT stillbaking sunshinenva IUI #2 tctibbe Clomid + Trigger + IUI TeacherVicky TheGregory27s07 VeilSdeGTO (Courtney) WI-mommy-hopeful Clomid Zzsmommy IUI Ladies waiting for BFP?s (2ww) Ade2be (April) Femera + Follistim + IUI AGFaso BabyTrippin BeachGrill bsustar62 hbkises inlovewithB IUI#2 jen629 jenniann87 jenrdh01 IUI - Betas 12/21 jld1687 (Jessica) kellbelle618 kmount MaryHCagle Clomid moogieboo MrsMorris1 Nathan&Christina nde99 nicole153 olivia_eve psumel13 tigers413 100 mg Clomid + Metformin tmhdmh Wickedsugar (Michelle) Recent graduates.. </FON
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Re: ~*~*~Ladies in waiting*~*~*~
Testing tomorrow. Betas tomorrow if its positive.
QOTD: This year, for some reason, O Holy Night has really stuck out to me as my favorite.
Update: I'm back down to waiting only 1 cycle before we can TTC again! AF just ended yesterday.
QOTD: I really, really love the Hippopotamus song. I don't know why, but it makes me happy! My other, more "serious" favorite is Amy Grant's Grown Up Christmas List. I PPH that entire album, actually.
Good luck ade - my fingers are crossed for you!
I would love to be a part of this post. This is just great. Having support during such a waiting game is amazing and a true blessing. I just got the ok from my dr to ttc after my first period so I am just waiting on AF right now.
QOTD: I have to say that Oh Holy Night is my favorite this year. Something about the song just sings to my heart!
Good luck ade2be!!!!
Well I think based on my temp this morning that I probably O'd yesterday. Timing was great, but then again it has been each month. So we shall see.
QOTD: I love Silent Night!
Noah's Blog TFAS Chart
BFP 12-16-08...blighted ovum at 8 wks
BFP 4-26-10....ectopic at 6 wks
BFP 4-4-11... Our little Noah arrived 11-15-11!
TFAS Sept 2012
Made so many amazing bump friends along the way... Congrats to my bump besties and IRL friends..sbuxsweetie (Colin is here, and is going to be a big brother!),kellbranc (Luca is growing so fast) and lots of prayers and baby dust to willamina (HUGS) So blessed to have met these ladies!!!
AF came last night, so I am waiting for that to finish then waiting to O.
QOTD: I dont know if I have a favorite. I like alot of christmas songs.
BFP#1 6/20/10 m/c 6/28/10@ 5wks
BFP#2 7/26/11 EDD 4/6/12 Its a BOY!
DS born 4/7/12
I'm halfway through the 2ww, waiting to test around the 28th.
QOTD: I like O Holy Night, but enjoy all Christmas music :-)
BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13
BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
I'm in the 2ww, but I'm not too hopeful about this cycle - I was super sick with a cold around FWP time.
Favorite Christmas Song: I have always liked "Lo, How a Rose E'er Blooming"
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
QOTD: I like way too many different Christmas songs to have a favorite.
Update: My appt went well w/ new ob, she agreed we can do a little bit of testing based on my history so I will be scheduling a sonohistogram just as soon as CD1 arrives. Also some information regarding my nephew with Downs syndrome came to light after his results came back, he has the inherited form of Downs and pending some paternity testing (drama!) I may also need testing to see if I'm a carrier... so with that frustrating info the ob wants us waiting another cycle. I'm sad to push ttc off but glad she's being proactive.
QOTD: Silver Bells or Dominic the Xmas Donkey.
Thank you for doing this.
I'm in my 2ww. Goal is to wait until after Christmas to test, but we all know I'll probably find a reason to test tomorrow.
QOTD: I don't have one. I've been avoiding the radio like the plague since I'm not in a festive mood. Can I pick the Adam Sandler's Chanukah song even if I'm not Jewish?
My Life
BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
Update: haha well not really...still waiting for AF! I hit the 6 week mark last Saturday. If she doesn't come around by the New Year I'm going to call my dr. It will have been 8 weeks by then! At this point I would be THRILLED to see her on Christmas!
QOTD: I love 'O Holy Night'...I choke up almost every time I hear it! I also love Kelly Clarkson's version of 'Grown Up Christmas List"
Good luck tomorrow ade2be!
BFP #1 - 04/09/10 -- m/c - 07/02/10 @ 20weeks and 3 days. D&C 07/02/2010 - EDD 11/16/10
BFP #2 12/17/10 please stick turtle. EDD 8/29/11 - Emergency C-Section 7-2-11. Andrew's journey
Congratulations to my TTCAL buddy Carolee on her BFP! Stick, baby!
Congratulations to elbandas09, cherylanddoug, tctibbe(MsPegees) and alliejoe for their take home babies!
Good luck!! FX for you!!
I'm officially in the 2ww! We did our IUI yesterday - which is all we really have going for us this month b/c DH is so sick. I may try to get him to FWP tonight just for fun.
QOTD: Silent Night is my absolute favorite. I cry every time I hear it, not matter what.
I'm still TTA. We should be back on the TTC bandwagon at the end of January or beginning of February.
QOTD: I don't have a favorite Christmas song. I like too many of them to really just pick one
Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
BFP #4 5/14/12
5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
IUI #2 was a BFN according to beta yesterday. Waiting on AF to arrive and waiting to see the RE to talk about what we should do next (most likely IVF with PGD).
QOTD: I normally LOVE Christmas music, but I just can't listen it to any of it this year. I am just too sad
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome
Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
Hey girl I'm so happy to see you had your AF already! We had very close EDDs from the July board if I remember correctly.
And, I think I'd like to come out of lurking and be an active part of this group! My missed m/c discovered via unscheduled u/s 12-9-10 (blighted ovum), this is the first day my bleeding is down to light spotting only when I wipe. So, I guess you can say I'm now really just waiting for AF? We weren't trying when we got the BFP, but now that I've been here and have baby on the brain, I'm really wanting to TTC again soon. So, hi everyone, I'm Jessica and that's my little story
If all goes the way it usually does, I will O on either Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. We will see. I have my first appt with the RE Jan 3, regardless.
Good luck to you, ade!
I am officially in the 2ww! Come on New Years BFP!
QOTW: O Holy Night.
My top 5 favorite Christmas Songs:
5. The Hannukah Songs by Adam Sandler
4. The 12 Pains of Christmas - that guy yelling rigging up the lights makes me crack up EVERY time.
3. Santa Baby- Marilyn Monroe
2. Where are You Christmas- Faith Hill
1. Carol of the Bells- Trans-Siberian Orchestra!!!!
BFP 1 4/2010 M/C 5/1/2010 8w2d EDD 12/10/10 BFP 2 5/5/2011 C/P?? 5/14/2011 5w2d EDD 01/12/12 BFP 3 3/12/2012 EDD 11/23/12 Ultrasound 4/11/12 H/B 160bpm! It's a GIRL!