I had DD in her bath tub yesterday while I showered but she kept trying to climb out. She wasn't happy until I picked her up and held her to me under the spray of the shower. Does something like that even exist where I could get both of us washed and she'd have her skin to skin contact that she loves?
Re: A sling or something for the shower
This!
Although I've read some positive reviews on this sling https://www.nurturedfamily.com/taylormade-water-mesh-baby-sling.aspx?Froogle
(negative reviews say it stretches out and needs to be adjusted when its wet)