Baby doesn't like me

Angellove32086 · December 2010

Ok it may just be that I am hormonal but recently I feel like she doesn't like me. I don't know how to explain it but Really kinda think she doesn't. Does anyone else feel like this at all or is all of this bed rest and pain getting to me?

bobbyme · December 2010

Uhhh, what?

Princessn678 · December 2010

Are you still pg? How can you tell s/he doesn't like you from inside?

Ashleygoo · December 2010

For the record, I'm on bed rest and I do not think my baby hates me... How long have you been on bed rest?

bobbyme · December 2010

alopdx:
I think it's hormones and bed rest getting to you.

You can't say this with certainty until we know the due date and gender of her baby.

Angellove32086 · December 2010

She responds when her father talks to her but won't move for me when I'm worried cause she hasn't moved in a while and when she does move for me she pushes on all my nerves and it hurts. and I have had every prego symptom there is and she keeps starting contractions then stopping them, they get to 4 mins apart for 2 hours and a minute long then they stop all together. I'm being induced next week and am scared so that isn't helping and also I'm having a girl and have been on bed rest for just over 16 weeks now

cheridyoh2az · December 2010

Ummm, counseling may be a good idea. Please don't shake your baby when it comes out.

MelbaToast37 · December 2010

Hahahaha - I think people are bored tonight, some of the latest posts are just silliness. Amber, it's probably her baby sending her evil vibes because she's a terrible mom for being on bedrest.

sucrets4 · December 2010

Angellove32086:
She responds when her father talks to her but won't move for me when I'm worried cause she hasn't moved in a while and when she does move for me she pushes on all my nerves and it hurts. and I have had every prego symptom there is and she keeps starting contractions then stopping them, they get to 4 mins apart for 2 hours and a minute long then they stop all together

You must have a very advanced baby if she starts and stops contractions all by herself. Have you ever been to Krypton, by any chance?

Princessn678 · December 2010

Kirbus:
Angellove32086:
She responds when her father talks to her but won't move for me when I'm worried cause she hasn't moved in a while and when she does move for me she pushes on all my nerves and it hurts. and I have had every prego symptom there is and she keeps starting contractions then stopping them, they get to 4 mins apart for 2 hours and a minute long then they stop all together. I'm being induced next week and am scared so that isn't helping and also I'm having a girl and have been on bed rest for just over 16 weeks now
I call mud. Babies can't start contractions. Plus, you think she's intentionally pushing your nerves? Yeah, because fetus's are that smart and all.

Maybe her baby is so smart. He or she will come out reading and speaking 3 languages

Nyki06Wed43530 · December 2010

Or maybe the OP is emotionally unbalanced. OP, you should probably talk to someone about your feelings, a professional would be best. Does your partner know that you feel this way? Dealing with feelings of hurt and rejection now would be a good plan so that it doesn't continue. Good luck.

bell0niner · December 2010

Princessn678:
Kirbus:

Angellove32086:
She responds when her father talks to her but won't move for me when I'm worried cause she hasn't moved in a while and when she does move for me she pushes on all my nerves and it hurts. and I have had every prego symptom there is and she keeps starting contractions then stopping them, they get to 4 mins apart for 2 hours and a minute long then they stop all together. I'm being induced next week and am scared so that isn't helping and also I'm having a girl and have been on bed rest for just over 16 weeks now

I call mud. Babies can't start contractions. Plus, you think she's intentionally pushing your nerves? Yeah, because fetus's are that smart and all.

Maybe her baby is so smart. He or she will come out reading and speaking 3 languages

And will take over the world at age 2....we're screwed with the whole terrible 2's thing....

nici84 · December 2010

I dont feel like that this time, but when I was pregnant with DS I had wierd bouts where I thought he didtn like me, um one time my fiance (at the time) came over and found me curled up on the bed just crying my eyes out, I told him bc I couldnt get the crib together I was going to be a bad mom and I should be able to assemble a simple crib.... yadda yadda yadda. He laughed at me.

i think sometimes our hormones get the best of us. And sometimes I think those hormones can just cause thoughts to come to mind where there isnt anything. So just wait your baby likes you, or wait and come back when shes like 2 or something and you REALLY think she doesnt like you (I also have a 2yr old DD).

bell0niner · December 2010

Nyki88:
Or maybe the OP is emotionally unbalanced. OP, you should probably talk to someone about your feelings, a professional would be best. Does your partner know that you feel this way? Dealing with feelings of hurt and rejection now would be a good plan so that it doesn't continue. Good luck.

Seriously, how rejected will you feel when she cries and you can't figure out what to do to make her content again? You should seek help, for realz....please.

RumbleLina · December 2010

Angellove32086:
She responds when her father talks to her but won't move for me when I'm worried cause she hasn't moved in a while and when she does move for me she pushes on all my nerves and it hurts. and I have had every prego symptom there is and she keeps starting contractions then stopping them, they get to 4 mins apart for 2 hours and a minute long then they stop all together. I'm being induced next week and am scared so that isn't helping and also I'm having a girl and have been on bed rest for just over 16 weeks now

Yes, because your LO knows exactly how to hurt you and it was because of her (not technically PG in general) that cause your PG symptoms. She did it just to make you miserable. Hmm

Wow.

ETA: In all seriousness though, go talk to a counselor for your health and the safety of your LO after she arrives. If you feel that your LO hates you from the womb already then there is no way you will be able to hand a fussy or colicky baby.

Angellove32086 · December 2010

This is what Im talking about which is why I said it was Probably hormones and bed rest. I'm sure she isn't even aware at this point of what's going on out here but I have been so sick through most of this pregnancy and got fired for having to be on bedrest for so long ( so the career I worked years to get is gone) it's been a rough road and now to be looking at an induction and an amnio ( to check her lung maturity) at only 37 weeks pregnant I know I'm all over the place. I know she isn't starting/ stopping contractions but everyone on here says when baby is ready they come out and this one keeps being indecisive lol)

edengrace12710 · December 2010

I am really surprised by how mean some of the mommies on here can be. We should be here to support each other not bully each other. Sure we are all hormonal but let's not let that get the best of us! I would imagine your mind goes in all directions when you're on bedrest for 4 months. OP- your baby is going to love you like nobody else! Good luck with your induction, T+P to you and your LO.

Angellove32086 · December 2010

Thank you edengrace! I think all I needed was a little support. ( which is VERY hard to come by on the bump. )

MelbaToast37 · December 2010

edengrace12710:
I am really surprised by how mean some of the mommies on here can be. We should be here to support each other not bully each other. Sure we are all hormonal but let's not let that get the best of us! I would imagine your mind goes in all directions when you're on bedrest for 4 months. OP- your baby is going to love you like nobody else! Good luck with your induction, T+P to you and your LO.

Hahhahaha - yeah, this is a support group and we're all in the same pregnancy boat. Blahblahblah, get over it.

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