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Fertility Friend Regretting Prgnancy

missbeckreepmissbeckreep member
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I had a friend (well not really a friend) that went to the same clinic as me, she ended up gettin pregnant right away on clomid.  Now shes regretting the pregnancy so much--she hasnt told me this but ive read it several places, she even left her mom raise the baby for 2 months...this makes me sick to the stomach. I guess her excuse is she never has time with her husband/herself and never sleeps? Come one really, we all are fightin for this too much. Sometime i dont think people know what they are getting into--and these are the people that get pregnant with one month of trying.

On the brighter side of things, I got a new hair style and my nails done and i feel like a new person :-)

 Have a great day!!!

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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member

    Hopefully she will come around.  It's very hard to see people get what we try so hard for....and seem not to appreciate it.

    I really should do something w my hair too!

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  • SLPMelSLPMel member
    Do you think it's possible that she has Postpartum Depression?
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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member

    imageSLPMel:
    Do you think it's possible that she has Postpartum Depression?

    Good point, i didn't think of that.

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  • missbeckreepmissbeckreep member
    ya very possible.  I hope she comes around :-)!
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  • MissuskeekersMissuskeekers member
    Yeah ppd was the first thing that jumped into my head.


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    Diagnosed with PCOS 10/20/2010 
    TTC since Oct 2010 
    BFP #1 March 31st 2011 Due December 10 2011 
    Missed m/c discovered June 2nd 2011 at 12w4d
    D&C scheduled June 7th 2011 at 13w2d
    Found out our baby boy had Triploidy XXY through embryopathology
    BFP #2 September 28th 2011 Due June 8th 2012
    Missed m/c discovered November 20th 2011 at 11w2d
    D&C November 29th 2011 at 12w4d
    Found out our baby girl had Monosomy X through embryopathology
    BFP #3 April 24th 2012 Due January 5th 2013
    Betas falling on 04/26/12 Chemical Pregnancy
    RPL testing done, multi nodular goiters on thyroid discovered.

    BFP #4 November 22nd 2012, Due August 5th 2013
    Betas: 17 @ 9dpo, 62 @ 11dpo, 124 @ 12dpo, 321 @ 14dpo 720 @ 16dpo 13,805 @ 23 dpo 
    First ultrasound at 6w3d, hb 122 bpm. 
    Second ultrasound at 7w3d hb 143 bpm 
    Third ultrasound at 10w1d hb 167-170 bpm 
    Forth ultrasound 12w1d hb 167 bpm 
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  • SLPMelSLPMel member

    I wonder how many people great judged the way you judged her with PPD.

    My biggest fear is PPD.  My history of depression and my Hashimoto's Thyroiditis makes me susceptible to PPD at a much greater degree.  And one of the things I know I will struggle with is exactly what you said-that people will judge me and that will probably make it even harder to talk to someone about.  What if I get pregnant, have a baby-and then struggle to handle it?  

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  • whitewave26whitewave26 member

    imageSLPMel:
    Do you think it's possible that she has Postpartum Depression?

    This.  I hope she can get some help and enjoy her baby!

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  • babylove0511babylove0511 member

    imageSLPMel:
    Do you think it's possible that she has Postpartum Depression?

     

    this, what if she is? i hope she comes around soon. 

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  • missbeckreepmissbeckreep member
    SLPMel. I'm really sorry I didnt mean to judge or offend you in any way.  I came to this site bc i need support like everyone...Just made me hurt real bad when i seen postings of the issues on facebook. I guess after almost 3 years of trying I would think i would want to be with my baby 24/7, or if i didnt feel that way i would definitly be thinking twice about all the $$we have spent, and the feelings we have gone thru. Again I didnt mean to offend, anyone, i came to this site for help.
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  • SLPMelSLPMel member

    No worries-you didn't offend me!  It was more a thinking out loud type of thing on the topic! PPD is so often not on peoples radar!

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