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My FFFC

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I am so jealous that DH gets to be with Miller so much more than I do.  He works the graveyard shift, so we are sleeping when he is gone.  I know it's rough for him to work at night and take care of M while I go to work, but sometimes I really wish I could stay home.

I also hate that when M is fussy or being difficult, DH tells me how to take care of him.  I should know how to do that without being told: I'M HIS MOMMA, DAMMIT!!!!

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Re: My FFFC

  • PeppernutPeppernut

    *love*

    That's a rough one for you!  It's awesome that you guys can take care of him like this, but it must feel like he's getting the "good" parts. 

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  • snwfieldssnwfields

    Aww, that must be hard. DH has that feeling too and then I just remind him of all the temper tantrums and crappy stuff that he missed also!! It will all even out when he gets older and you will so appreciate how happy M is when you get home!!!

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  • mtnridermtnrider member
    Yeah DH does that to me too sometimes.  He is actually better at soothing Simon when he wakes up than I am!  I think our babies know they can work us more since we're their mom. 
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  • daisydanadaisydana member
    imagePeppernut:

    *love*

    That's a rough one for you!  It's awesome that you guys can take care of him like this, but it must feel like he's getting the "good" parts. 

    ^ That.

    And I think it's perfectly fine to be a little jealous too. But no one can ever take your place. You are his one-and-only Mommy. 

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  • steverstever member

    Boo! I'm so sorry. I know how hard it must be and how easy it would be to be jealous of DH - that's not flamable at all.

    If it makes you feel any better, I spend every single second with Mikey and DH is still better with him than I am. I mean, I do pretty well with him and he loves his mama, but it's like Mikey and DH have their own language that I only speak a few words of :(

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