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i feel like a bad wife

helenejrhelenejr member
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anyone else still not all that enthused by sex? i'm hoping i'll have the urge soon enough - but i feel terrible because before i fell pg we were doing it 4  or 5 times a week and that wasn't to try and fall pg - that was just us having a great time............... now he is lucky to get it once a fortnight....... please tell me there are others out there who feel the same?

looks like pity sex is on for tonight now i feel super guilty again :(

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  • ChocolateDiamond1ChocolateDiamond1

    **guilty**

    I have felt the same way as well. ?I was ill for the past week however and things were even worse! ?I am hoping things pick back up again soon. ?

    ?I was hoping that the second tri would be better.. but maybe not! ??

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  • niende89niende89
    I am in the EXACT same boat. We are expecting our second baby and with our son I wanted it CONSTANTLY! This time around I'm so tired and sick all the time that sex is the last thing on my mind. I feel really bad cause I know how important it is for him. I don't even remember when we actually had intercourse last. I've been getting him off like once a week and even that feels like work. I just want to start enjoying the second trimester. lol. 
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  • LittleDelanyLittleDelany
    I'm with ya, girlfriend.  I give in every now and then but DH feels bad because I'm not enthusiastic.  I was told that this changes later on so I hope so!!
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  • helenejrhelenejr member

    thank you ladies - i'm so glad i'm not the only one!!!!!

    here's to an improved sex drive in a couple of weeks!!! fingers crossed!

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  • *BlackSheep**BlackSheep* member
    To be truthful. I still really not into sex. I don't think dh has got a bj in I don't know how long! I think we may have sex once a week right now. I don't even care, but I do feel bad for my hubby.
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  • SAHM4EVASAHM4EVA
    defintaly guilty, I don't mind pleasing DH but I really don't want him touching me.  He doesn't mind cause he knows it won't last forever.
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  • meghancmm84Wed21413meghancmm84Wed21413

    imageSAHM4EVA:
    defintaly guilty, I don't mind pleasing DH but I really don't want him touching me.  He doesn't mind cause he knows it won't last forever.

    Ditto to this.

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  • meghancmm84Wed21413meghancmm84Wed21413

    imageSAHM4EVA:
    defintaly guilty, I don't mind pleasing DH but I really don't want him touching me.  He doesn't mind cause he knows it won't last forever.

    Ditto to this.

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  • Emilicious88Emilicious88 member
    I try to initiate, and DH is scared he'll hurt the baby....yeah. And I don't like oral or handies - it just doesn't do anything for me, so I don't get enthused, and then he gets upset....it's a difficult boat to be in.
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  • Mrs.EMSMrs.EMS member
    it's hard top feel sexy when your gasy, bloated and constipated!
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  • MichekkeMichekke
    Same here! IDK when the last time we had sex was. Before I got preggers we had  VERY active sex life but now I just could care less! And I know it's killin my dh! POOR GUY! But he doesn't complain too often lol!
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