How far along in the fertility treatment process did you start these?
We've just finished round 2 of Clomid (unmonitored). I talked w/RE today and was told they don't normally do the mid-cycle ultrasound w/clomid, but they will since I asked for it this cycle. Guess I have to ask for this every cycle... I dunno. They also would not have done CD3 us this month if it weren't that they are going to now do mid-cycle us... not sure what to think about that.
I am thinking when I go in for CD3 us that I might ask if we can do a trigger shot at the mid-cycle us if my follicles are looking good. I don't want RE to think I am overbearing so I was curious if there is a certain length of time to go through this process before they typically start the trigger shots.
Your thoughts are appreciated.
Re: Trigger shots?
I don't know about Clomid, but my doc always recommends doing a trigger shot on Femara. If I didn't want it, I don't think they would force it, but he and all his NP recommend getting it.
I started meds after only 6 months, but I had surgery back in Sept for what my doc thought was a cyst, but it was a tumor, he found stage 3 endo, adhesions, so he wanted my long cycles fixed and pregnant ASAP so my endo won't come back.
I find it extremely weird you had to ask your RE to be monitored. IMHO, not being monitored on meds is like flying blind. You have absolutely no clue if you're responding, don't really know if your dosage is correct, and not to mention the risk of having mulitple mature follicles at a time. And the overstimulation thing.
I agree. I thought it was odd I had to ask them too. I found it even more strange they told me they don't normally do the mid-cycle monitoring. Unfortunately this is the only RE in my area, so I am going to try to build the relationship and keep myself as informed as possible about fertility treatments.
I honestly was afraid they'd be b*tchy today when I asked about the mid-cycle monitoring, because I transferred to them last month from an ob/gyn who became irate when I asked questions regarding fertility treatment. Fortunately they were nice about it, it just took a few phone calls to get the nurse to discuss with the doc and he agreed.
I don't think it would hurt for me to ask about the trigger shot this month, but I don't want them to get pissy w/me for asking for too much too soon.
You are paying them! (Well, or your insurance is paying them...) At any rate, they're making money because of you. Ask what you want! Personally if I'm putting my body through the meds and whatnot, I'd want to make sure that timing was as good as possible--meaning I'd want the trigger shot. Ever since I've done medicated cycles, starting with my first clomid cycle, I've done a trigger.
Good luck--I understand that with this being the only RE in the area that you feel you need to handle things carefully with them, but I also wouldn't be afraid to talk to them and ask them about what you want. There's a lot more at stake than possibly hurting the nurse and/or doctor's feelings or feeling like you're stepping on their toes, kwim?
DX: High FSH/DOR
It took 44 cycles, just over 3 years, 6 failed IUI's in MI, and 1 round of IVF at CCRM to get our BFP!
Beta #1 (9dp5dt) = 206, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) = 438
1st u/s @ 6w5d = 11/11/11 = ONE little bean! HB 120bpm!
?Our Baby Boy Born June 26th, 2012?
Sucks that there is only one in your area. I'm not seeing an RE, my OB is a Fertility Specialist as well as an OBGYN. Maybe you could call around to see if there are any OBs in your area that do treatements as well?
The only tests I've been made aware of (these may not be the only ones as their communication is lacking) are prolactin and progesterone bloodwork and then HCG tests at end of cycle. DH has has the SA completed last week and we are awaiting the results.
I am seeing a RE. He has been in the business I believe since the 80s from what I remember at the consult. I found out yesterday from another girl my sister knows who went there that she did clomid treatments with him for 3 years before she finally told him she was done and wanted an iui. He didn't even offer it as an option. Maybe he's overly cautious or something I don't know. But I'm glad I learned this now so I can start speaking up and hopefully help to progress my treatment.
I am already at the point where I feel like if this clomid cycle doesn't work and DH's SA is OK, then I'm ready to move forward and check my tubes and then see if we can do iui. I know I'm going to have to wait on that for at least another month though because the RE has already told me if this cycle doesn't work he wants me to cease all medication including glumetza (metformin) for 30 days and do baseline testing before we go forward.
Wow, looks like you're gonna have to take matters into your own hands with this doc...Good luck sweetie!
after anovulatory diagnosis and TTC for 1 1/2yrs with several medicated cycles and one chemical pregnancy, we have our first bundle of joy!
IT'S A GIRL!
#2 EDD 2/5/13 dx with anti-BIG E antibody, seeing a MFM
I don't take one single minute for granted.
I agree. I'm afraid on can't offer any advice on specifics, but I think in general that you need to be your own health advocate. It is your fertility and your life.
You can be firm and direct without be a Biotch. Nobody can blame you for that, but if they do they will get over it. JMO
TTC #1 since Jan 09
Jul 2010 - HSG, SA, U/S BW - all clear
Nov 2010- Mar 2011 - 50mg Clomid, HCG Trigger & IUI 1-4 All BFN
Apr/May 2011 break
June 2011 - New RE, New Plan
July 2011 - Gonal F, Ovidrel & IUI #5
July 2011 surprise BFP on a break cycle before injects!!! Please let this be it!
Cautiously expecting our miracle on Feb 25, 2012