I haven't done this since we got married... heck, even sending out the wedding Thank You's was a major under-taking. I'm terrible with birthdays too. It's probably too late to start working on them now, but I'm starting to feel bad that I've never done this. I really wanted to this year if only to give our family members a new family pic with us and our LO... but then I feel like that's kind of self-absorbed! lol
Do you ladies send cards for special occasions? Do you think it's rude not to?
Re: NBR Question: Do you send out Christmas cards?
Most years I do send out Christmas cards. We don't have any family in the local area/same time zone so mailing out cards is a given really.
This year it was a joint announcement/christmas card. I've also been sending out heaps of Thank You cards for all the gifts we've been getting for our DD.
I don't think it is self-absorbed either. At least when I get a card I always feel touched and think it was nice that they thought of me/us. Now that we have a LO I think people would be disappointed if we didn't send pics.
BFP 11/29 - m/c @ 5w
I hate getting cards in the mail. I appreciate the sentiment, but after a birthday or a holiday, I'm left with a pile of cards. I feel bad throwing away all those nice sentiments from people I love, but I also don't want to have a box full of cards sitting around my house. When my grandmother died, we discovered such a box, and then the emotionally difficult decision to keep or throw them away was passed down to us. Ugh.
Instead, my husband and I make a digital xmas card and email it or post it on our blog. If people really want to, they can print it out and put it on their refrigerator or toss it in the box with all the other cards they'll never look at again.
Nope.
Didn't send out birth announcements either. Everyone I care about has seen her or a picture of her as a result of communicating with me or our parents.
That's just not me. I like them when I get them in the mail, but it's not my thing.
Danica 10.22.10 | Milo 12.23.12
We did for the first this year!
I'm sending out cards with the baby and the dogs on them. i love getting photo cards!
I also love using my mac address book to print labels. Makes the whole project sooooo much easier. It's not to late, I say do it! Many places will do the 4x8 photo cards in an hour. I know 1 hour photos in Targets and Walmarts near me do it