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I was doing so good.. (vent)

dperkodperko member
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Until I got an invitation today (picked it up late) for a baby shower to be held on the same day that mine was supposed to be on.... boo... cried on the phone and told my sister that she needs to do the shopping for this gift. DH is mad because we barely know her and said we shouldn't of been invited in the first place... ugh....

And, AF is at her finest today, she is not holding back on any symptoms. Ugh.. I think I should just crawl into bed now and call it a day.

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Re: I was doing so good.. (vent)

  • nikki04vbnikki04vb member
    Oh no... that sucks!  If I were you I would just skip it completely.  Don't even let it bother you... it doesn't exist.

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  • dperkodperko member

    I told my mom that I am not going to go. I feel bad for her too though, because she will be there and she doesn't really show saddness, but its going to suck for her. I hope that I can convince her not to go either and send gifts..

    It's just too soon. I am very happy for them, but I can't handle it, I would be in the bathroom crying the whole time. I'm not stable enough, and I remember reading previous posts about some of you going to showers and whomever had gone to one after a recent loss are strong women!!

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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    I just got an invite for my friend's shower, too. We were only a couple weeks apart. I'm not going... I just can't.
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  • dperkodperko member
    It's so hard. I start getting emotional at the thought of even going through her registry... I know its a selfish thought, but I keep wishing that it was my invite and my registry..... I think i need a glass of wine now.
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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member
    Yeah I wouldn't push it, no need to cause yourself any more pain. The holidays are tough enough as is. *HUGS* Hope you can talk your mom out of it.
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  • jenniann87jenniann87 member
    I am so sorry. I know how hard that stings. My bff had hers on the same day she knew mine was going to be. Needless to say I didnt go and just sent a gift. I would do the same in your case too. {{{HUGS}}}
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