H is trying to act like he's not concerned

Hyfagal · December 2010

but since we've been home he's been washing dishes, doing laundry, tidying up the house.

I think the reality that this baby is probably coming out before her due date is starting to sink in.

He's trying to keep me calm as I was sobbing most of the way home and tried to pack my hospital bag when we got in. He keeps telling me everything is fine and he's not worried. She's perfectly content where she is, but his nesting says otherwise.

mommydale · December 2010

Wait, your H is nesting? hehe...

You need to relax though and so does he before he drives you nuts with his nesting/worrying!

Hyfagal · December 2010

No I've been confined to the recliner since we got home. I was packing the bag when he gave me the choice of walking to the chair or being carried there because the bag could wait.

He's trying to hide it by saying things like "Oh I've got to get these dishes done in case the pipes freeze tonight and I need to get that laundry or it wrinkle in the dryer." All legitamite reasoning except we were planning on watching movies all night and now he can't seem to sit down.

katkat74 · December 2010

That is actually cute to me. You know how men can't actually express worry so...there you go. Hope you have a relaxing evening...you have had one helluva night/day!