I just want a sign

Re: I just want a sign

• AmberZ2be

  December 2010

  Hey Dee! I was out of town the past couple days and just got caught up a little. Congrats on the awesome fert report!!

  Best of luck on making your decision on # to transfer.

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  it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
  After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.

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• brandywine2010 member

  December 2010

  Just wanted to wish you the best of luck in making your decision. 

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• STL34 member

  December 2010

  Good luck!  It is a tough decision.  I hope you come to a decision with which you are comfortable.  Good luck on Tuesday!

  
  
  
  ~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~ 
  
  

  Me= 37 and DH = 41 
  
  Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)
  
  IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN
  
  IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.
  
  IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!
  

  TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

  IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

  IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

  IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN
  

  FET#1:  BFN

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• Itmamma

  December 2010

  Things to consider 

  are you doing a 3dt or 5dt?

  will you have frosties?  

  can you afford twins?  financially and emotionally?

  your age and quality of the embryos

  hope this helps, it is a really difficult decision and I wish you and dh the best of luck!! 

  

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• illinigal member

  December 2010

  I can't answer this for you, but I would tranfer 2 no question since I actually would prefer twins.  I think you have to ask yourself which you'd be better able to handle.... twins or no baby at all.  You need to take the path of least regret.

  TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
  IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
  IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
  IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
  Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
  IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
  Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
  Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
  IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
  IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
  ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer
  Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
  IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
  IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
  **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**
  
  
  

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