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December 2010 Moms
jillybean800
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Age you lost your virginity?
jillybean800
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To get a convo going....
Age you lost your virginity?
How did the experience go?
Regrets? Why or why not?
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Re: Age you lost your virginity?
Age you lost your virginity? 16
How did the experience go? Okay, but not great...it took us several tries. We don't really match up, size wise. It was better when we were in college.
Regrets? Why or why not? I honestly do not have regrets, though having sex so early was a little stupid. But, I knew I loved my then boyfriend (he's now my husband) and I knew he wasn't just using me for sex. We really did care for one another.
Age you lost your virginity? 17
How did the experience go? Would have been better if he had bigger pecker
Regrets? Why or why not? None, I thought I was in loooooove.
How did the experience go? kinda awkward, but it was the first time for both of us so that's to be expected.
Regrets? Why or why not? no. I never really believed in waiting for marriage, but I'm happy I waited for my husband, if that makes sense.How did the experience go? it hurt a lot and I didn't like sex for a while
Regrets? Why or why not? no. My first was my husband and we have been together for almost 9 years and I think it is awesome we were each others firsts
How did the experience go? It was good, I got mine twice :-P
Regrets? Why or why not? Nope, it was pretty good sex. What's to regret? lol
Age you lost your virginity? 22
How did the experience go? It was really good.. we were each other's firsts and he was very gentle and loving.
Regrets? Why or why not? No regrets. It was with my husband and I am glad I waited for him.
Age you lost your virginity? 15 (Ouch...do I get the youngster award?)
How did the experience go? It was okay, but when the phrase "hurry up, my parents will be home soon" is involved, how good can it really be?
Regrets? Why or why not? Sort of - I had NO IDEA what I was doing at that age - the guy was obviously a jerk (just not obvious to me) and I wish I used my head a little more.
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Age you lost your virginity? 16 to my husband
How did the experience go? It went well, no complaints
Regrets? Why or why not? No regrets.
Age you lost your virginity? 15
How did the experience go? strange... he didn't want me to wear my glasses, so i couldn't see anything.
Regrets? Why or why not? Tons. He was just a hook up, for one thing... no love, no feelings, practically strangers. There was no foreplay, so it hurt like hell. He got his and left me hanging. It was the first time for both of us, so neither of us knew what we were supposed to have been doing. Stopped me from having sex again until I was 19.I was 17
It was with my daughter's father, and we were both eachother's first. It was extremely painful and uncomfortable, but after the first time we got the swing of things.
No, I don't have any regrets. I lost my virginity to him thinking that I loved him so much and that we would eventually get married...nope. We had a baby but no wedding. We're great friends now and great parents together, so I think that it was worth it.
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It was as ok as your first time could be.
No regrets. My 15 year old self thought I was in love with him. It would've been nice if I saved it for my next BF, my first love...so we could've been each other's first but oh well.
*Tardy to the party, but it seemed fun.
Age you lost your virginity? 16How did the experience go? quick. haha. he was 16 too. and we had to hurry before his parents came home.Regrets? Why or why not? Nope. It was with my now husband and we've been together for almost 11 years.
I lost it: about 3 weeks before my 18th birthday.
The experience was: satisfying emotionally (it was Valentine's Day, and I loved that boy like nobodies business.)
Regrets: Zero. If I could do it all over, I would want it to happen exactly the same way. Ahh... the sweet first love googles... I'll always wear them for him.
Age you lost your virginity? I was 18, it was the summer after I graduated from high school.
How did the experience go? It was absolutely terrible. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
Regrets? Why or why not? I think it's something I will always regret...not the fact that I lost it at 18, but because of the person I lost it to (my emotionally and verbally abusive ex-BF). I didn't want to, but he pressured me into it, and I was crying and shaking and he still kept going. He, and that experience, screwed me up for a very long time. Poor DH had to deal with the aftermath when he and I started dating, and it took me a good two years to finally start feeling like myself again. I wish I wouldn't have ignored my gut reaction, and ran screaming for the hills instead of giving up my virginity to such an effing douchenozzle.
Lost my virginity at age 18 to the boyfriend I had before DH.
I have absolutely no regrets. While it could have been cool to have waited one more boyfriend and then have lost it to DH so that I'd only have had sex with one person in my life, I basically think that my experience could not have gone better.
The boyfriend and I decided we were in love first, and then the whole thing went well when it happened. It did hurt because of the whole hymen thing, but I still managed to enjoy it and even orgasm and all.
I was sad when we broke up (it was "mutual" but really it was him initiating), but ultimately I was really glad because I met DH like 2-3 weeks after we broke up! Also, I stayed friends with the guy and just went to his wedding this year.
I think it's easier to not have regrets given that we are still friends and that I know he's a really great guy. I'm happy that he finally found his perfect match, too!
Overall, I was really happy I didn't do it sooner with one of my high school boyfriends, who all wanted to. haha.
I lost mine on Thanksgiving when I was 17, which resulted in everyone joking about "Oh we aaall know what Lyndsey is thankful for!" for a good while.
It was awfully decent for a first time. Obviously I've learned quite a bit since then, but it was fun nonetheless!
No regrets, I didn't end up marrying him (whew!), but he was a great guy to lose it to and I loved him a ton.
Let me just throw in there that I love my husband more than anything and he is definitely the BEST partner I've ever had... ever!
Age you lost your virginity? 18
How did the experience go? It was okay but nothing spectacular.
Regrets? Why or why not? No regrets but in hindsight, I wish I would have waited for my husband because I wasn't in love with this other guy the way I am with him.
Age you lost your virginity? 15
How did the experience go? It was ok. Neither of us knew what we were doing so..
Regrets? Why or why not? No regrets. He is now my husband
Age you lost your virginity? 14
How did the experience go? ok, but awkward. He snuck over my house at night, so we were both nervous to get caught. lol
Regrets? Why or why not? Even though this guy turned out to be known as "psycho-ex" & still crank calls my parents' house to this day (I told you-psycho!), I can't say I regretted it b/c we were in love & it was what we both wanted.
Age you lost your virginity? 21
How did the experience go? It all seemed to happen very very fast. A total drunken heat of the moment thing. But overall it was fine.
Regrets? Why or why not? Nah. Mainly because I have very few regrets in life but also because while I was totally wasted I remember every moment and made a decision to do it. I haven't spoken to the guy in years due to distance and just moving on with our lives, but he was a good friend for a long time.
I believe that I am going to be a rarity!
Age you lost your virginity? 21
How did the experience go? Great! I was a senior in college and so was he, so I felt like we were mature enough to make a decision like that. I was the second partner he'd ever had.
Regrets? Why or why not? Not one, we're married! Yep, I married the only man I've ever slept with and about three weeks after LO arrives (assuming he comes on his due date), we will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary. I feel very blessed to have him in my life.
Age you lost your virginity? 17
How did the experience go? I wasn't ready, I felt pressured & for it being my first time he was way too big & it hurt a lot.
Regrets? Why or why not? I regret that I let it happen when I knew I wasn't ready. My BFF is a few years older than me & told me it gets better after you're married & I think she was totally right. I ended up staying with the guy for another 3 or 4 years. I got married & moved in with DH. He started dating DH's cousin's daughter, they happened to live on the same street as us ...weird. They had a child together & broke up. Unfortunatley he's still around because of their son. It's awkward so in that respect I guess I do regret it.
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Age you lost your virginity? 17
How did the experience go? it was alright
Regrets? Why or why not? no regrets, it was both our first times and hes now my hubbie=)
Age you lost your virginity? 18
How did the experience go? Awkward...first time for both of us...we started fooling around but he didn't have any condoms, so we made a trip to Walmart in the middle of the night. Totally awkward, and more painful than enjoyable, but it turned out well.
Regrets? Why or why not? Not really. The only regret would be "giving it up" to him so soon into us dating, but it ended well. It was the first time for both of us and we are now happily married. I'm glad my first time ended up being with my DH.
Age you lost your virginity? 19
How did the experience go? It hurt, and it was awkward. It got better with practice.
Regrets? Why or why not? I guess I'm the oddball here, but I regret not giving it up sooner. 7 years later I ended up marrying him. No regrets about that, but I've always kind of wished that I had other experiences to compare him to. I dunno. It's just kind of weird that I've only been with one guy. I fooled around with plenty, but never went "all the way." When I finally did, it wasn't really a big deal and seemed very anticlimactic (no pun intended).
wow...I'm surprised to see I am the oldest so far at 23. I too had very young parents (mom was 20 by the time I was born and I was her 3rd), so that always scared the sh!t out of me to wait. lol I never wanted to be a teenage mom.
The experience went well. I was ready and wanted to see what all the hype was about. I never told him I was a virgin until afterwards and he was shocked. He didn't want to "De-flower" me...said it was a heavy load to carry. I think I told him not to flatter himself. lol Anyway, we dated on and off for about 2 years after that. I'm not gonna lie, it was good sex. He's now married with triplets...better them than me! LOL
No regrets at all. I truly loved him even tho' it was on and off a lot. He was just a very unsure person and I think we were too different and that's why it didn't last.
Am I actually going to tell this story?...
Age you lost your virginity? 17
How did the experience go? OMG He was in 4-H and one night after the fair closed we slept in the back of his truck and that is where I lost my virginity. We were both virgins and HE CRIED AFTERWARDS!! He said his mom would be so disappointed if she knew.
Regrets? Why or why not? Well he was my long time BF but wish I could have held out, cuz I ended up being my DH's first once we got together!!
Age: 14
How did it go? Meh, it didn't hurt. (aka small pecker but I didn't know it)
Regrets? I actually do regret it. He is now some kind of crazy train hobo and my S/O makes fun of me every time this guy tries to contact me on FB. He is CRAZY, and I gave him something he didn't deserve. Plus the only reason I did it was because I had just moved to this small town and I missed my friends back home who loved me.
Age: 20 or 21.... I can't remember.
How did it go? Meh, it hurt and he totally didn't sympathize with it being my first time at all. We were just friends but it felt natural, not weird at all if that makes sense.
Regrets: It definitely could have been better, and he was a little bit of a jerk for a while after that but we kept close and remained friends until I started dating DH. He made sure to tell me that "he didn't want a relationship or anything. Funny how much he wanted me after I was with someone else!