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July 2011 Moms
carrieandtim
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the worst two words: "no heartbeat"
carrieandtim
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It is so difficult to say, but Goodbye July Mommas....
I went in today to get a pain in my left side checked - thinking it was just a cyst or something like that - and the doctor couldn't find a heartbeat. We are completely devastated as this is our 2nd m/c in 4 months.
I am having a difficult time understanding why God would allow this to happen to us again. But no where in His word does it mention an easy life for those that believe in Him. It does mention that He has a plan for us, His mercy is new every morning, He loves us and He'll never leave us. It also mentions to trust in Him and He will make our path straight. I need to cling to those promises now as my heart is hurting. In Him I put my trust - even if it's not as strong at this very moment. He knows what it's like to lose a child...and in His mighty arms I will stay.
I wish you all wonderful blessings as you continue on your journeys!
Married my best friend ~ May 31, 2008
Adopted our furbaby Kona ~ January 17, 2010
Trying to grow our family ~ June 2010
1st BFP 7.6.10 ~ EDD 3.15.11 ~ mmc 8.6.10 ~ d&c 8.11.10
2nd BFP 11.4.10 ~ EDD 7.15.11 ~ HB 6w3d ~ No HB 7w ~ mmc 12.8.10 ~ d&c 12.9.10
3rd BFP 7.12.11 ~ EDD 3.22.12 ~ HB 6w5d 124 bpm ~ Team Green ~ SHE STUCK!
Adopted our furbaby Kona ~ January 17, 2010
Trying to grow our family ~ June 2010
1st BFP 7.6.10 ~ EDD 3.15.11 ~ mmc 8.6.10 ~ d&c 8.11.10
2nd BFP 11.4.10 ~ EDD 7.15.11 ~ HB 6w3d ~ No HB 7w ~ mmc 12.8.10 ~ d&c 12.9.10
3rd BFP 7.12.11 ~ EDD 3.22.12 ~ HB 6w5d 124 bpm ~ Team Green ~ SHE STUCK!
4th BFP 6.20.13 ~ EDD 3.1.14 ~ HB 7w5d 153 bpm ~ A/S revealed due date possibly 2.23
*~*~*~*EXPECT MIRACLES*~*~*~*
Praying for peace in God's ultimate plan ~ "Be still and know that I am God." -Psalm 46:10
*~*~*~*EXPECT MIRACLES*~*~*~*
Praying for peace in God's ultimate plan ~ "Be still and know that I am God." -Psalm 46:10
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Re: the worst two words: "no heartbeat"
I'M SO SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS AGAIN!
T&P are with you both! Hold each other tight- take time to heal and know that it is nothing you did or didn't do that is causing it.
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So sorry to hear your sad news. I must say, your attitude about the situation sounds amazing.
-Jeremiah 29:11
BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
DD born 07/2011 DD due 11/18/2013
Oh my dear, I'm so very sorry for your loss. God does promise all of the above, minus what you pointed out. It's so hard as a Christian to realize that, but I'll be praying for you during this time.
Your faith has been so inspirational for me on this board. Please take comfort in that.
BFP 10/25/10 Brynn Helen born 7/7/11
Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13
I pray that God's plan for you is better than you can imagine. Keeping your faith during a difficult time like this shows that you are truly God's daughter.
Our 3 Precious Angels That Left Us Too Soon
BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13
BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13
Diagnosed with Hypothyroid 05/20/13
BFP #4 - 09/22/13 - DD#2 born 05/27/14
All Alers Welcome!
6/14/10 BFP; 6/30/10 Dx ectopic
11/16/10 BFP #2; DD born 7/26/11
DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
I'm so sorry you have to endure this again. Your faith is admirable.
Hurting for you. I'm struggling with trusting Him as well, but yeah....
"This is what it means to be held, how it feels when the sacred is torn from your life and you survive, this is what it is to be loved, and to know that the promise was when everything fell, we'd be held."
Praying for God's mercy and grace in your life, and that you can trust in His plan for you and your family. It will make your sticky baby that much more joyful in your lives! {{{HUGS}}}
I am so sorry for your loss. Truly.