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Really. Why WOULD he want to?

buckeyebratbuckeyebrat
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My girlfriends think it's so bad that FI and I don't really "do the deed" anymore b/c of this pregnancy, but I totally get why he doesn't want to.

From the front, I have a huge belly that my boobies rest on, my bush is literally a bush b/c I'm too lazy to do anything with it, labia is so swollen it seems like I have a set of balls, and the discharge is YUCK!

And if he wanted to flip me over so he didn't have to see all that goodness, he'd be staring at my 'roids.

Even though I want sex more than ever these days, I can't really blame him on NOT wanting it. Lol.

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Re: Really. Why WOULD he want to?

  • HyfagalHyfagal member

    I said something about my dinner plate nips the other day and H said, "Don't forget about your tea cup nips!"

    Indifferent

    I get it. I also get that he feels like the baby is "right there." I've had time and practice tuning her out when I need to but he feels like she might as well be laying right next to us during the deed and it makes him uncomfortable.

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  • yourmom5309yourmom5309 member
    I kind of wish DH did not want to have sex.  But I guess sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is still pretty good. 
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  • MolluskwranglerMolluskwrangler member

    imagerobs867:
    I kind of wish DH did not want to have sex.  But I guess sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is still pretty good. 

    Yes 

    Although, an upside to the leaking breasts is that DH is now afraid to touch them!

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    imagerobs867:
    I kind of wish DH did not want to have sex.  But I guess sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is still pretty good. 

    Yes 

    Although, an upside to the leaking breasts is that DH is now afraid to touch them !

    I wish I had this as my issue.....mine leak from time to time, yet my boyfriend seems to think that it's stillperfectly acceptable to squeeze and grab with the same amount of pressure as he did pre-pregnancy, without the thought that it might be a tad more sensitive right now. I can't tell you how many times I've slapped his hand away and told him that if he can't play nice, he doesn't get to play at all.

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  • jmul10jmul10 member
    imagekgabardy:
    imageLovingBaz:

    imagerobs867:
    I kind of wish DH did not want to have sex.  But I guess sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is still pretty good. 

    Yes 

    Although, an upside to the leaking breasts is that DH is now afraid to touch them !

    I wish I had this as my issue.....mine leak from time to time, yet my boyfriend seems to think that it's stillperfectly acceptable to squeeze and grab with the same amount of pressure as he did pre-pregnancy, without the thought that it might be a tad more sensitive right now. I can't tell you how many times I've slapped his hand away and told him that if he can't play nice, he doesn't get to play at all.

     

    HAHAHAHA!!!! Omg, so funny!

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  • Jenniferk08Jenniferk08 member
    H is still at ready to pounce mode every second of the day.  It is not easy this far along to speed change since any bare skin only makes it worse.  Thankfully he's agreed to a once a week limit because frankly I'm too dam tired/sore for anything else. 

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  • RumbleLinaRumbleLina member

    imagerobs867:
    I kind of wish DH did not want to have sex.  But I guess sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is still pretty good. 

    My DH doesn't care about the PG at all when it comes to having sex. I have to swat him off of me. I told him last night its not going to happen with this kid so low that it feels like my crotch is going to split open and then he had a little pout because he calculated how long until LO comes and how long until after LO.

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    imagekgabardy:
    imageLovingBaz:

    imagerobs867:
    I kind of wish DH did not want to have sex.  But I guess sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is still pretty good. 

    Yes 

    Although, an upside to the leaking breasts is that DH is now afraid to touch them !

    I wish I had this as my issue.....mine leak from time to time, yet my boyfriend seems to think that it's stillperfectly acceptable to squeeze and grab with the same amount of pressure as he did pre-pregnancy, without the thought that it might be a tad more sensitive right now. I can't tell you how many times I've slapped his hand away and told him that if he can't play nice, he doesn't get to play at all.

    LMAO!  So True!!!!! I have told DH the same thing more than once...

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