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21 weeks & still no movemenet - anyone else?

I will be 21 weeks tomorrow & I still have not felt the baby. No flutters or butterflies, nothing.  I worry so much if something is wrong but I have spoke to friends who said they didn't feel the baby until 21 - 22 weeks.  But when I read posts on this board of people feeling the baby at 17 weeks I get sad & worried.

Anyhow, wanted to know if anyone else is in the same boat?  And no health concerns or worries so far during pregnancy, everything is normal.  She is quite active during the ultrasounds I had at 13 & 18 weeks but I don't feel her activity!

Re: 21 weeks & still no movemenet - anyone else?

  • I was in the middle of the 22nd week with my DD before I felt anything.  My doc gives until 24 weeks before he is concerned at all.  Hang in there!

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  • with my first i didn't feel anything at all until 23 weeks, then strong kicks or nothing. doc told me at the time not to worry until 28 weeks and that it depends on your placenta and how the baby is lying. if you saw the baby move during your ultrasound then you are fine.with this second baby i felt it at 15 weeks ro so

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  • Yup--with my first I didn't feel anything until about 22 weeks (at least).  Then all of a sudden it was constant.  Hang in there.
  • At about 21wks for me, I felt her but I would have passed it off if she was my first baby. Im 24 now and Ive just for the past like wk 1/2 I think been able to more clearly feel her. Before it was feeling her but not clearly her it could had been something else. But I know Ive noticed that I have felt LO less bc shes currently in a breech position (fingers crossed she will turn). And I know at 21wks I went to the ER (DBF thought I was having a heartattack) and they did the heart rate and she kept moving but I didnt feel a thing.
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  • With ds I didn't feel him move until I was 23-24 weeks.  I remember being at my big u/s and the tech saying that ds was kicking me and moving and I couldn't feel it at all.  I felt this one around 18 weeks but from what I hear, you can feel the 2nd baby much sooner.  I hope you feel the little flutters soon so you can be reassured.

  • Almost 20 weeks and I too have not felt anything.  It should be coming soon. :)
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  • i didn't start to feel the baby until 23 weeks. i always felt like such a loser each visit when the nurse asked if i felt the baby yet. everyone is different and my doctor said not to worry until 28 weeks. she actually said by 28 weeks i'll probably be asking her for baby xanax :)

    in any case, i feel him all the time now, and just last night i had my husband feel my stomach and he could feel the little guy kicking like crazy.

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  • I didn't feel anything with my first until I was 21 weeks -- it wasn't until after my big u/s. Try not to worry!
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  • I know how you feel when you read about other people's experiences. I love to hear what is happeneing and when with the others but I need to keep in mind that everyone is different and not worry so much. As long as the DR says everything is AOK don't sweat it.
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  • I didn't feel DD until a little after 21 wks.  It was starting to get a little frustrating for me too... hang in there!
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  • I didnt until 24 weeks with my DS. Hang in there, your day will come soon!
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  • 20 Weeks tomorrow and nothing yet :(
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  • I've only recently started to feel some flutters.  But I have a couple of pregnant friends who didn't feel anything until 23 weeks.  I wouldn't worry quite yet and before you know it...you will feel that little difference in your belly and it will be so exciting Smile  And then we may all end up like my friend who is as far along as I am and feeling full kicking and it's driving her crazy! 
  • I did not have movement with DS until 21+ weeks because I had an anterior placenta. He is now a healthy 18 month old!

    This time around has been totally different...I started feeling regular kicks at 15 weeks and DH can already feel them from the outside. It's all much much sooner than it was the first time around!

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  • I think I started feeling movement around week 21, but even then I wasn't sure if it was LO or other random internal stuff.  It wasn't until I saw my belly physically move (around week 24) that I was really certain that I was feeling the baby.

    Hang in there...soon you'll be able to feel your LO!

     

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