we are now at a full week of DS waking up every hour after his initial stretch of sleep; and I'm exhausted!
And...it seems with every night, that first stretch of sleep is getting shorter and shorter...
Last night he was down at 8:10, was up at 1, 2:30 (didn't get up this time, he fell back to sleep on his own), 3:45, 5:15, 6:30, 7:15, and up for good at 8am...
I'm SO OVER THIS!! I think the most frustrating thing is that I can't even ask DS if there is something he needs or wants, which is why he's waking up. Also frustrating is that I don't know when it's going to end. Even if I knew, ok, he's going through this, but it will be over in 2 weeks or whatever, I could deal with it...but I don't
When it comes to sleep training, I think he's still too young, and besides, once he goes into his crib at night, we don't pick him up at all, so it's not like he's used to getting cuddles.We prop a pillow under him to feed him at night (don't worry, we remove it and lay him flat before we go back to bed), and when he wakes other times and isn't hungry we just pop the paci back in and walk away...so I don't even know what we COULD be doing that we aren't already...
GRRRR....I'm so tired and frustrated...
OK; vent over.Thanks for listening...
Re: I am SO over this shiity sleeping!
Mama, I am right with you on this one! My sweet DD is just not a good sleeper not matter what we do and she is 5 months old!!!
I swear we've tried everything, bath before bed, massage, low lights, music, long feeding, short feeding, crib, bassinet. Nothing really clicks or lasts for long. She has been sleeping in her bouncer since day one but except two times, has never slept more than 3-4 hours at a time. I wish I knew what she wanted too, it is SO frustrating!! I will let her cry it out, but not for too long and let me tell you she has a set of lungs like Pavarotti-OMG!!
I feel like DD is regressing in her sleep pattern too and I'm at a loss. At first I though it was the so called '4 month wakeful', ok well that has passed and now we are blaming it on teething. Last night, she slept on me all. night. long. as I am half sitting up, it's gotta stop. You are not alone!
We co-sleep after DD wakes for the first time, and that's pretty much the only thing keeping me going. If I had to get out of bed every time, I'd be a walking zombie. She's getting a bit of a cold now, so she was up even more last night. Usually she wakes every couple hours to nurse starting somewhere between 12:30-2am. Last night she woke up at 10pm right as I was going to bed. She pretty much nursed or fussed all night long after that. I think I fed her 3 times and gave her a pacifier twice. Plus she fussed a couple times but then went back to sleep. I'm not a fan of any kind of sleep training for us. I'm hoping once this cold passes and her teeth pop through, she'll start sleeping better again.
Charlotte Ella 07.16.10
Emmeline Grace 03.27.13
ugh the past 3 nights for us have been like this. waking constantly and i DO NOT KNOW WHY! i think she is teething and uncomfortable bc for months she has been sttn, like 730-5 am and i was very used to it.
this sucks!