We are having DS baptized in January and I do not know the etiquette (sp?) for the ceremony.
Do you send out invitations or just word of mouth to family and friends?
Do you do a party or meal afterward?
How do I ask the people if they will be the Godparents? How many Godparents do you choose? Do you get them a gift?
Do you get LO a gift? If so what?
Thanks!
Re: Baptism
I send out invitations, but they are not required. I served lunch afterwards for DS, and plan to do the same for DD. Most everyone attending the baptism is coming from OOT, so I don't want them to leave hungry.
As far as asking the godparents, I just asked them while pregnant. I picked two godparents, and yes, I got them an engraved picture frame.
I didn't get LO a gift, I figure the party afterwards is enough. DS got tons of gifts from relatives.