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Have you ever gotten to a point

crownedbeecrownedbee member
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where people's pregnancy announcements don't phase you anymore?

I think I've gotten there.  I've had several friends announce pregnancies on FB in the past couple of weeks.  I used to cry, but these last few I have just read and skipped over them like it's any other update on FB.

I'm sure it has a lot to do with me being unmedicated right now, but I have found it a bit odd that something that used to suck so bad doesn't really phase me right now.

Just wondering if my heart has officially turned black or if this is normal-ish.

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Re: Have you ever gotten to a point

  • MandyBrownNoserMandyBrownNoser member
    I go through phases.  Some times I'm just like- fuuck it another one and others it feels like a knife.
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  • OCW2010OCW2010
    ditto Mandy on this one.  Most of the time when I hear an announcement and it's not someone close to me, I HIDE them.  Quick fix for me.
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  • stayceestaycee member

    I don't remember not really caring - other than the announcement of one of my CW's.  (she'd been showing for weeks, so we all pretty much knew).     Hers didn't phase me for once.    Oh, it was also great when she asked me if we were ever going to try for kids.    So I told her we'd been trying for well over a year at that point.    She was trying to offer me helpful tidbits of info like "Do you know at the ovulation predictor things you can pee on?"    That's when I shut her down with "Honey, I'm WELL beyond that point with daily injections of fertility drugs and 3 failed inseminations".

    I loved that she didn't have a response.

    Other than that one, most announcements (or seeing new babies - like in church) caused me many moments of completely breaking down into tears.

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  • katt3233katt3233 member
    Nope. They still hurt.
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  • mmariluhmmariluh

    I go through phases too.

    In general, when it's someone that I know has been waiting a long time or had a hard time, I'm SO happy for them. Tears or no tears.

    Other than that, it's a gamble. I may go from happy to sad to not caring...

     

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  • SerendipitieSerendipitie member
    imagemmariluh:

    I go through phases too.

    In general, when it's someone that I know has been waiting a long time or had a hard time, I'm SO happy for them. Tears or no tears.

    Other than that, it's a gamble. I may go from happy to sad to not caring...

     

    This. And when it's a stupid idiot after two cycles, I get uber pissed at the world
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