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And another ones pregnant!!!!!!

jlr557jlr557 member
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I'm trying so hard to be happy for all my pregnant friends but I'm about to freaking lose it! Ones due 2 days before I was, ones due 2 weeks later, another due with twins 1 week later, my cousin just announced on facebook his girlfriends pregnant, another friend is due in July, and today I found out my best friends close friend is also pregnant. Seriously???? I'm just so over this. Had to vent, sorry. My Husband thinks I'm a jerk for getting upset over this, whatever!
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  • haziedazehaziedaze member
    Ick, I sympathize! I don't think you're a jerk, I think most of us here have felt what you are feeling. I seriously feel like there are pregnant women EVERYWHERE...
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  • SimoneRISimoneRI

    i am with you. its so hard

    we went on a touble date with my best friend and her husband sat. night and she told me she was 14 weeks pregnant. We would have only been 2 weeks apart. I obv am super happy for her and put on a happy face but I could barely shut the car door before I started hysterically crying and I didnt stop until I fell asleep that night.

    Its so tough :(

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  • CakesABakeCakesABake
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    You're not a jerk! It's so difficult to see pregnant women. And, they are EVERYWHERE! Sad

    I'm sorry for your loss.

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  • TigerFanTigerFan
    I'm so sorry.  The reminders everywhere make a m/c so much worse and you are in no way being a jerk.  Hang in there.
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  • DragonflyBelleDragonflyBelle
    We all completely understand. I am surrounded by pregnant friends at work and my SIL and cousin are both newly pregnant and due within weeks of each other. Very happy for them....but it hurts. Sending *hugs* your way!
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    Men will never get it. I still cringe every sibgle time I see or hear about someone being pregnant. It breaks my heart every. Single. Time. Yes, we really can be happy for others but so sad for ourselves at the same time. For me, unfortunately, the feeling sad for myself overshadows the happiness I feel for others. I simply can't be around anyone pregnant or anyone with a baby the same age as my first. My husband doesn't get it either.

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  • lkfdplkfdp
    You are not a jerk.  I just miscarried last night and of course the first thing on my facebook feed this morning is a friend of mine from college announcing her pregnancy.  It was not fun to read at all.
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  • tdmd09tdmd09 member

    I totally understand. My friend called me while I was on my way to work on Sunday to tell me she's pregnant and due 11 days after I was. I cried like crazy until I got to work, then held it in until I drove home, and then I cried some more. I really am happy for her, but I am SO sad for me. I can only hope it gets easier as time goes on.

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  • mgduke19mgduke19 member
    You are so not a jerk, you simply have feelings. They will be what dictates your behavior for awhile and I think that is perfectly reasonable. (((HUGS)))
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