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Rude people make me stabby

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I haven't told anyone but my sister about this pregnancy. I did however tell a co-worker today because she was being nosey and basically forced me into telling. I was angry enough about that- I haven't even told my parents yet but now she knows. She knows about our 3 losses and yet made a comment about at least I was good at getting KU now if only I could stay that way for a full nine months. What?! Who says that? I tried to cut her some slack because I know she has had some trouble TTC and I know it hurts to see others getting pregnant when you still aren't, but I still thought that it was really rude

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  • Mrs.EmmaLouiseMrs.EmmaLouise member
    Trouble TTC or not, that comment is effed up.  You should stab her with your pen by 'accident' next time you see her. 
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  • lauralizabeelauralizabee member

    imageMrs.EmmaLouise:
    Trouble TTC or not, that comment is effed up.  You should stab her with your pen by 'accident' next time you see her. 

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  • alamber4alamber4 member
    Yeah, some people don't think before they speak.  Sounds like she might be hurting herself though.  It doesn't excuse what she said, but I agree that she is hurting because she can't seem to get pregnant.  She doesn't understand your side of the pain.
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  • EmKo0210EmKo0210 member
    I hate that comment.  Some people should just keep their mouths shut.  Sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • AGFasoAGFaso
    Ya, I hear that.  You don't wanna be mean bec she's technically not an FH, kwim?  ((hugs)) for dealing w/her!
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  • sevenonesixsevenonesix

    what the what she thinking saying that?

    rude people make me stabby too! 

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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    Thats aweful, I'm so sorry hon!
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  • vflipovflipo member
    I'm with Emma on this one! My sister has had trouble TTC and has had a loss, and she still says things like "You guys think about getting pregnant and it happens..." Uh yeah, that's great and all but getting them to stay in there is a challenge.
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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    That comment is beyond rude. She should be ashamed of herself. We've all been in that TTC low, but that was totally out of line.
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  • Karen1998Karen1998 member

    imagealamber4:
    Yeah, some people don't think before they speak.  Sounds like she might be hurting herself though.  It doesn't excuse what she said, but I agree that she is hurting because she can't seem to get pregnant.  She doesn't understand your side of the pain.

    This exactly.  I'm sorry she was so insensitive to you.  

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  • a&b=him&mea&b=him&me member

    what the... WHAT would push someone to be that insensitive? Seriously, she deserves a side eye for that.

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