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For those of you that remember me...

BlueyedgrlBlueyedgrl
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posting about a friend that lost her baby girl, she committed suicide, she left behind a little boy. I know she was hurting but now I feel so bad for her little boy not only is he asking where sissy is, he now is asking where mommy is... please keep him in your prayers.. TIA
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  • lil_rhodylil_rhody member
    Oh god. T&P to her family, especially that poor little boy.
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  • isacdimi10isacdimi10 member

    Oh wow that's aweful

    Thoughts and prayers for their family big time right now

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  • ringer10ringer10

    That makes me so angry.

    i will keep that little boy in my thoughts.

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  • lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse

    OMG, how awful! That is so incredibly sad. And, I'm sorry, selfish. How she could leave behind her little boy with no mother is so heartbreaking. I will pray for her DH and son. And everyone else she left behind.

    Also, why would you think we wouldn't remember you?

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  • MskharisMskharis member
    OMG. I vaguley remember. Did the child die from SIDS?
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  • BlueyedgrlBlueyedgrl
    imageringer10:

    That makes me so angry.

    i will keep that little boy in my thoughts.

    I'm a ball of emotions when it comes to this, I know she was hurting but I don't think this was the answer, I'm about 400 miles away from her, but someone should have seen the signs that things weren't good, I mean she lived with her fiance, and her parents talk to her daily and live down the road from her...
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  • MrsPattersonMrsPatterson member
    That is so tragic.  My thoughts and prayers are with that poor little guy and the rest of the family.
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  • BlueyedgrlBlueyedgrl
    imageMskharis:
    OMG. I vaguley remember. Did the child die from SIDS?
    Yes...
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  • KateAndMarkKateAndMark
    Oh that is so terrible. That family is in my thoughts.
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  • BlueyedgrlBlueyedgrl
    imagelovesinthehouse:

    Also, why would you think we wouldn't remember you?

    LOL I guess that does sound a little funny.. it just would let me type all that I wanted so I left it at that, its been a long day can I use that as an excuse?
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  • MskharisMskharis member

    imageBlueyedgrl:
    imageMskharis:
    OMG. I vaguley remember. Did the child die from SIDS?
    Yes...

    So sad. I know I would not be able to handle it if it were me. Me and my husband were talking about how my oldest would be an orphan because we would be in insane asylums.

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  • Mrs. DissMrs. Diss
    That is just awful. I'm so sorry for that family, especially, that little boy.
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  • eas15905eas15905
    Oh my gosh, he will be in my prayers.
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  • GTBrideKCGTBrideKC
    Oh dear God... that family is my T&P.  That poor baby boy.
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  • jen-dalejen-dale member
    imagelil_rhody:
    Oh god. T&P to her family, especially that poor little boy.
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  • xnbridexnbride member
    Oh my goodness. That is so tragic. I am so sorry for your loss.

     

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  • nferrantenferrante
    Oh...that's so sad! That little boy is in my T&P's!
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  • LC0479LC0479 member
    Oh my God. I'm so sorry. So awful. Will certainly keep the family in my prayers.
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  • Kelly0615Kelly0615
    Oh goodness...T&P for her family. ((hugs))
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  • mamaholicmamaholic member
    Oh my god. How devastating. T&P's to them and to you. (((hugs)))
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  • Babs022Babs022 member
    omg, how sad!! tons of t&p going out to that little boy!
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  • mchell9mchell9 member
    OMG...that is just awful.  I can't bare to imagine being in that situation- that poor mother- she must have been so tormented.  And now- that poor little boy- I hope dad is an anchor for him b/c he is going to need it. 
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  • Addicted2thenotAddicted2thenot member
    T&p to everyone touched by this tragedy
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  • OregonMamaOregonMama
    Oh my god. My heart goes out to him.
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  • mrsandrews07mrsandrews07
    oh my gosh, that is heart breaking. who has her little guy? i cant even imagine.
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  • BlueyedgrlBlueyedgrl
    imagemrsandrews07:
    oh my gosh, that is heart breaking. who has her little guy? i cant even imagine.
    at the moment he is with his dad and I'm sure he will continue to have him but I'm not sure
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  • UseonfireUseonfire
    My heart is breaking for that poor little boy :(
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  • zschick4everzschick4ever
    That poor child. I dont know what I would do if I was in her shoes, but I do know suicide is not the answer(my mom tried 3 times while I was growing up).
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  • JacquiemarkJacquiemark
    That is so tragic. My prayers go out to the little boy and his father. So horrible.
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  • knortonknorton
    So many prayers for you and this family. I had a close mentor commit suicide when I was in college. It was really hard to deal with, so, make sure you are taking care of yourself too.
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  • jeffraejeffrae member
    oh my goodness....I am so sorry!!!
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  • roundtheworldgirlroundtheworldgirl member
    Oh my goodness, that poor child.  My prayers for him!
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  • kellieokkellieok
    OMG, that is so heartbreaking. My heart goes out that that little boy. T&P prayers for him.
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  • MelissaAB5579MelissaAB5579 member
    Oh my gosh, that is so terrible! The family will be in my T&P's
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  • BeachBride72106BeachBride72106
    How very, very sad!  T&P for that poor little boy.  )=
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