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I want to punch everyone I work with...

Well okay not everyone but a choice few. Because they all know and there's a girl there (whom Ive talked about before) that's due 5 days before I was. She feels compelled everyday to talk to me about her baby and the difficulties she's having with the pain in her back! Yesterday she made a comment about the building where my OB is located. She says building D is for Delivery. Floor 7 if you ever need it! WTF! <mental punch in her throat!>

They all act like nothing ever happened to me. Yesterday I was assigned a case that should have gone to her but because she is due in Jan she isn't being assigned any new cases which is understandable but my supervisor walks in and says well because she's pregnant, we're gonna give the case to you. WTF <mental punch in her ovary>

Oh lucky me for not being pregnant. Son of a....

<vent over>

Re: I want to punch everyone I work with...

  • I'll make you a deal, I'll come to your work and throat punch those morons and you can come to mine and throat punch the FH I have to sit next to every day that proclaimed "Oh well"  when I told her about my m/c. Deal?

    Big hugs to you that you have to put up with such idiots!

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  • Wow!  Just wow!  I just don't understand how people can be so stupid.
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  • Deal! I'll punch her in the throat and kick her in the kidney because "oh well" is definitely at the top of the "things you don't say" list.
  • Ugh!  I hate FH's at work.  ATTENTION FHs:  Nobody cares about the contents of your ute.  Take your FH Spawn talk somewhere else, TYVM. 

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  • What is wrong with people?? I ended up quitting my job because of the mean things people said to me. The girl who is due five days before I was became a super stalker wanting to talk to me non-stop.
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    Ugh!  I hate FH's at work.  ATTENTION FHs:  Nobody cares about the contents of your ute.  Take your FH Spawn talk somewhere else, TYVM. 

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  • That girl sounds like a huge insensitive b*tch. I would start giving her the cold shoulder. 

    And I really think its unfair that you get assigned her work - it seems like an extra "punishment" for not being pregnant. The same thing is happening to me at my work and I hate it. It is really adding insult to injury.

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  • Such idiots!  People act as if it's no big deal and think it's okay to joke about.... dumb.  I'm sorry- those were a couple of rude and unnecessary comments.  (((Hugs)))

    I've thought about quitting my job BIG TIME!  The situation is bad enough without these stupid, insignificant people making it worse.  If- When I get a BFP I'll definitely be thinking about quitting.

    Background:  I work in the chemical industry, have to announce my BFP asap to EVERYONE, and have to change to a job position which basically involves sitting at my computer doing nothing all day so everyone else hates my guts... not to mention all the days I missed b/c of m/s... I do not want to go through that again!


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  • I'm sorry you had to deal with that. There are a lot of stupid people out there. I'd probably be in tears if it was me. ((Hugs))
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  • Ugh! I'm sorry you have to deal with that at work.
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