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Shortycube
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i'm leaving this house, tomorrow. fvck this sh!t
Shortycube
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basically, dh and BIL got into an argument when i was trying to sleep, so i went downstairs to ask them to be quiet and BIL started fighting with me too. in the end he said he would rather us live in a shelter so i said "wow, that's a nice story for me to tell my son about his uncle" and he said "if he makes it that long"
WHO THE FVCK SAYS THAT? i can't sleep tonight. i b!tched him out and almost hit him but dh made me stop.
fvck this family. i would leave tonight if we had somewhere to go. i'm going to be up all night.
like fvck anyone will say that about my son and think they can ever see him again.
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Re: i'm leaving this house, tomorrow. fvck this sh!t
it's dh's dad - and he's at work,
honestly, i have no idea. hopefully my friend can let us stay there tomorrow morning. i will protect monster at all costs - i will find somewhere to go.
I'm still up on facebook. Message me if you need to talk. I wish we lived closer you could stay with us. I hate that BIL has been so bad recently.
Saying something like that is ignorant and how dare he. I think you have every right to have gone off on him. Glad you DH was there to stop you from doing something stupid.
I know I don't know you very well, but I wish you could come stay with us. We have crappy family on DH's side and I feel the same way about DS, I'll protect him at all cost. Unfortuntely we'd have to deal with that whole visa thing and that's not that easy.
PM me if you want to connect via facebook and we can chat some more. I hope the day time is much better. Just remember monsters kisses, he's so sweet!
Wow. Who says something like that?? I'm sorry, Shorty, sounds like a rough night indeed. I didn't realise you hadn't found a place yet. Why is it taking so long? There has got to be an apartment or something in town that will work for a little while until you find something that you really want.
I think one of my hardest experiences so far being a mom is keeping my own emotions in check. I'm a firm believer in not hiding my tears/anger/happiness/whatever, but for DS sake I try to downplay it. I'd say that most days I fail, but I still continue to try. Recently I've been a basket case and I don't want DS expericing the chaos that I feel in my head.
My inlaws bring out the ugliest side of both myself and my husband. I feel DS body get really tense and he's a lot fussier when the energy is mucky. For Monster's sake try to picture yourself somewhere, anywhere, but there. Has Monster seen the ocean? James hasn't and sometimes I picture taking the dogs to the Oregon coast, (4 hours away,) and letting the dogs run while DS dips his toes in the water. Visualization, escape. I find I need ot escape my life quite a bit. Another option, I take a hot shower and picture the water cleansing me of negativity. A walk does the same, or a picture of a bright cleansing light above my head.
I realize how crazy I sound right now. It's 4:22 here.
{{{hugs}}} Shorty
I want to cry when I see monster's sweet face and think about everything you're going through. BIL is being an absolute nozzle. I can't believe he would say such an asshat thing about a child. He needs to grow the fvck up.
Keeping my fingers crossed that you will find some way out of this situation NOW.