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TTC After a Loss
CheesyPeas
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Confession of a Lurker (Intro)
CheesyPeas
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I must confess, I've contributed to the views and not the responses for the last week or so. I'm ready to come out of the closet now though. On November 19th, I went in for my 10 week appointment and found out that my baby had no heartbeat. The little one measured 9w4d at 10w2d. I had a D&C last Monday. I'm completely heartbroken. I was so excited about being a first time mom, and now I'm empty. I'm waiting for my first period before trying again but I would really like to hang out with all of you lovely ladies while I wait to join in on the TTC fun, if that's okay with all of you.
Just a little about myself....I got married in July to my DH. We're both 27 and live in IL with our doberman and kitty cat (pics in signature). They're one of the few things to make me smile over the last week and half.
I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you better over the coming weeks!
November 2010 - 10.5 week loss
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
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Re: Confession of a Lurker (Intro)
Your subject made me laugh. So sorry for your loss, it's so upsetting to have all your hopes taken away like that.
Welcome to the board, everyone here has been amazing, I can't say enough good things about how much this board has helped me, I hope you find it helpful too and don't have to be here long!
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
my blog
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'm glad you came out of lurking to join us, welcome. My pets were the only thing (besides DH) to made me happy through the dark times after my m/c's. You're fur babies are very cute.
BFP-2/4/10 EDD-9/27/10 M/C-2/11/10 7w3d D&C and Methotrexate-2/19/10
BFP-11/21/10 M/C-11/25/10
Clomid Cycle #1-BFN
Clomid Cycle #2-BFP-1/18/2011 M/C-1/26/2011
BFP-5/18/11 Riley arrived 2/3/12 8lbs6oz 21.5in
Welcome to the board and out of lurking status. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you don't have to hang out here too long!
MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
BFP #4 5/8/11
BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
I'm glad you've come out of Lurkdom
Welcome to the board and of course you can join us! I'm very sorry for your loss. I too have furbabies, and besides my DH, they were my rock during and right after my loss.
We have a TTCAL blog that is pretty neato if you would like to check it out--the link is in the bottom of my siggy.
I lurked for at first too...
I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you can find comfort here!
BFP#1: 7/23/10, EDD 4/1/11, MC/DNC 9/29/10(14wks)
BFP#2: 1/12/11 CP (6 Weeks)
BFP#3: 6/26/11, EDD 3/4/12, Natural MC 8/5/11 (10wks)
Welcome - glad you've come out of lurk-dom!
So sorry for your loss, I hope you're feeling physically better soon - emotional will take a lot longer I'm afraid
[spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow
BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010
BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!
Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500
First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat
LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!
TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015
Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015
Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270
First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.
JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.
TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
I have to admit I chuckled at your subject line as well..
I'm sorry for your loss.. Welcome to the board, and we're glad you came out of lurkdom
This board has been so helpful and supportive to me, even while I was waiting to TTC..I hope you find the same support I did. Hope your stay here is short and sweet (((Hugs)))
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Welcome to the board!
Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled. However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15! Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!
Surprise! Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due. Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Congrats for coming out of lurking. Welcome!
Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
BFP #4 5/14/12
5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
BFP#3 - 6/5/11 - DS - 2/10/12
BFP#1: 7/14/10. EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby! BFP #4: 2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15 BFP #5: 4/5/15 EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)
BFP #6: 3/2/16 EDD 11/5/16
<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?utm_source=ticker&utm_medium=HTML&utm_campaign=tickers" title="Baby Names"><img src="http://global.thebump.com/tickers/tt1cfe4e" alt=" BabyFetus Ticker" border="0" /></a>bfp 01/23/10 m/c 12w1d 03/14/10 EDD 09/24/10
bfp 07/20/10 m/c 5w1d 07/25/10
bfp 11/19/10 Born 07/24/11 via C/S
My Forever Sister From Another Mister~CashewsMommy!!
BFP 1 4/2010 M/C 5/1/2010 8w2d EDD 12/10/10 BFP 2 5/5/2011 C/P?? 5/14/2011 5w2d EDD 01/12/12 BFP 3 3/12/2012 EDD 11/23/12 Ultrasound 4/11/12 H/B 160bpm! It's a GIRL!