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Another DH vent NTTGPR

FyreFry5FyreFry5
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So DH said something pretty douchy to me last night.  I won't get into specifics, but I told him then and there it was an awful thing to say.  His response was "oh, c'mon, I didn't mean it".  And he walked into his office to play his f-ing computer game. 

A half-hour later, he still had not come to actually apologize to me (which he's usually pretty good about if I let him ponder of his idiocy for a while).  So I went to him and said "You really have nothing to say to me?" 
"About what?  What did I do?" he says.  Jerk.  You know damn well what you did.

So I walked away.  I fell asleep on the couch, and he came in to wake me up to go to bed, and I told him I was staying there.  He asked why, and I told him I was still pissed off about what he said.  So now HE'S pissed off that I'm pissed off, but has yet to apologize for the dickish thing he said to me to begin with.  We are still having a silent war.  

Bastard.  At least I'm getting some peace and quiet Huh?

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Re: Another DH vent NTTGPR

  • bellaarchitectbellaarchitect member
    I would have made him take the couch. Sorry, men are idiots most of the time.
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  • DestinedtobeDomesticDestinedtobeDomestic member

    I'm sorry Fyre :( Sometimes men just don't get it. In all honesty I think it has something to do with their make-up. 

    It's SO frustrating to get into arguments with them, just to figure out they don't even get why you're upset. And even as much as we try, to get them to figure out why we're upset...they just don't, or it turns into an even bigger argument. 

    I hope you and your hubby make up soon...it's not fun to fight :( 

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  • tosh24tosh24 member

    Ah yes, the silent war. This happens more than I'd like to admit. And DH always seems to forget/get over it while I'm still stewing waiting for an apology. The thing that makes my blood boil most? When he thinks the issue was "no big deal" and tells me to "grow up". Angry

    Hope your DH comes to his senses soon!

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  • tmsetzer83tmsetzer83
    I'm sorry, I hope you make up soon!  DH and I do that kind of stuff sometimes.  It's just something we work on to learn how to end the fight as quickly and painlessly as possible.  I think they will not always understand why we are mad, but they just need to get that we are, and apologize. Good luck :-)
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  • FyreFry5FyreFry5

    Thanks for "listening", girls.  I'm still pretty fuming, but at this point I'm more pissed that he hasn't tried to make it right than I am about the original comment.  I've been trying to avoid just telling him flat out "Listen, I'm pissed and I can't believe you haven't apologized yet," because then when he does apologize, it will be one of those "Fine, I'm sorry.  Happy?" apologies that are awkward and don't really mean anything.

    He usually comes around more quickly than this, so I don't know what his major malfunction is.

    Sorry for the drama and venting, but thanks again for taking my side and letting me know that it's not just my husband that can be a dirtbag sometimes Stick out tongue

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  • tmsetzer83tmsetzer83
    imageFyreFry5:

    Thanks for "listening", girls.  I'm still pretty fuming, but at this point I'm more pissed that he hasn't tried to make it right than I am about the original comment.  I've been trying to avoid just telling him flat out "Listen, I'm pissed and I can't believe you haven't apologized yet," because then when he does apologize, it will be one of those "Fine, I'm sorry.  Happy?" apologies that are awkward and don't really mean anything.

    He usually comes around more quickly than this, so I don't know what his major malfunction is.

    Sorry for the drama and venting, but thanks again for taking my side and letting me know that it's not just my husband that can be a dirtbag sometimes Stick out tongue

    Definitely been there.  Men are crazy.

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