Has anyone elses LO been waking up in the night consistantly? Bryce has all of a sudden (in the past two weeks or so) become very clingy. He doesn't want anyone but me, DH or my mom. He always wants to be held. At night, he will only go to sleep if we rock or bounce him. And he has also been waking up around 2am every.single.night. We have to get up and rock him back to sleep for about 30 minutes.
I'm not sure if he's teething, or just having bad dreams or what. Anyone elses LO done this? If so, what did you find was the matter? Someone suggested giving him Motrin before bed, but if it's not teething, I don't want to give him Motrin if it's not necessary.
Re: Waking up at 2am *every* night?
I'm hoping it's just a phase.
We're going through a similar clingy mess with DS. I posted about it earlier today.
I must have missed it! I'll go look at your post too and the responses. Thanks!
There wasn't much for responses. I think I might RP on a busier day. The boards are quite slow today.
At 16mo our DD started the same thing. After nearly 3 months of hell at bedtime I learned something. We let her CIO at 6-7mo and she learned to soothe herself. But at this age she is more aware and curious of her surroundings so CIO didn't work. She needed to be reassured that we were right there if she needed us. So, my suggestion would be that when your LO cries walk in and tell them it's ok, lay back down, etc. DON'T PICK THEM UP! Once they're laying down again, walk out of the room. It usually takes several times of doing this the first few nights but now we have our awesome sleeper back.
All together we converted her bed to a toddler bed, gave her a pillow pet, and use a twilight turtle. I'm not sure if all 3 of these as well as the above are what made it work with DD but I often question that if I had just reassured her that I was just around the corner would she have been ok w/ out all the other changes. Regardless, she is sleeping and that's ALL that matters now. lol
Thank you! Where did you get the twilight turtle?
DD has gone through phases like that, and I agee with the person who said not to pick them up. I always pat DD's back, and if that's not enough, I tell her I'll hold her hand for 1 minute, then follow through. Sometimes she fusses, but she's usually okay with it. If you get him use to waking and being rocked every night for 30 minutes, it's going to be hard to retrain him not to wake at that time.
GL!