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I hate getting excited

jb2rnjb2rn member
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I have been repeating "I am out, I am out" since 3 DPO due to all my spotting. I told myself I am sure this means my Progesterone is low and I need to just make an MD appt and find out.

Now I am 10 DPO and my temp SHOT up this morning. It shot down yesterday and I "felt" AF on her way and brought tampons to work. I still feel like she is coming, but why do I let myself get excited? Sad

My LP's have been 9-11 days, so FF suggests I test tomorrow. Which is pretty early still.

 this is the part of TTC I hate. anyone else?

*off to not get my hopes up*...

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  • catahoulattecatahoulatte member
    I'm sorry jb, I know exactly what you mean. Getting your hopes up early sucks!!! I don't have any advice. I just know what you mean. It's a crappy process. Not to keep your hopes up, but your chart does look great....Wink Stranger things have happened.
                                       
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  • limpetfanlimpetfan member
    I think your chart is really interesting!  I can understand not wanting to get your hopes up, though.  It is horribly disappointing when they come crashing down, at least it is in my experience.  I'm rooting for you though... like I said... it's a very interesting chart :)
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  • btsrc5btsrc5 member

    I am right there with you.  I tried so hard not to get my hopes up, but it hit me pretty hard yesterday.  Then this morning my temp dropped some, and of course, I am already really upset.  Sad 

    I know, I know... I am not out until AF shows up, but I am feeling completely deflated and have no hope for this cycle. 

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  • DestinedtobeDomesticDestinedtobeDomestic member

    I'm sorry girls :( 

    ::hugs:: to bts and jb! There is still hope :) Keep your head up! 

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  • LightdrwrLightdrwr member
    I know what you mean. I've felt AF on her way for 3 days now. I am 9 DPO (FF thinks I'm 10 but I believe I ovulated on day 23, not 22) and usually have LPs between 7 and 11 days so it could happen at any time. To make matters worse, my sister, who is on her 2nd cycle of trying to get pregnant got her BFP on Sunday. We've been trying for 9 cycles and having LP issues. I'm part jealous, part sad, part happy and mostly, trying not to get my hopes up too much. If I do get MY BFP, our due dates will be 4 days apart and how cool would that be for my sister and me to go through our pregnancies together? I'm just hoping AF stays away until after we celebrate Thanksgiving together tonight. I'm not sure how I'll get through the dinner otherwise. Hang in there!
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  • FyreFry5FyreFry5

    I know exactly what you mean!  I had a 15 day LP last cycle (after 12 and 13 days LPs) and it was hard to keep myself grounded. 

    I hope this is it for you!

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  • lp0lp0 member

    I know what you mean, it's so hard to get your hopes up and then not have it happen. Not to feed into it but I feel like all the bfp charts I've seen lately have been spikey so maybe that's a good sign. You're not out until af shows so stay positive and hopefully it will happen for you this cycle. If not then the way I look at it is tomorrow is another chance and I am thankful to have that. It will happen :)

     

     

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  • alison2379alison2379 member
    I totally know what you mean. But I tell myself that it's okay to be emotional and hopeful about his process. We're human, we're allowed to be optimists occasionally! I hope that this is your BFP.
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  • Mrs.KKMrs.KK member
    I'm with you. DH asked me this a.m. if I thought this was going to be our month. I said no. He told me to quit being so negative. But the let down every month is soooooo tough. I feel like if I prepare for a BFN it's emotionally easier.
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