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Pregnancy dreams?

erbarmywifeerbarmywife member
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So, I started having pregnancy dreams.  Last night I dreamt that I found out I was pregnant, and the night before I dreamt that I was delivering.  In both dreams, it was future, but near future.  The first dream was 9 or 10 months from now, and the second was only in another week or so.  I know this, because I mention in the second dream having to tell my mom I was pregnant only 3 months after my c-section and the birth of my twins.  The delivery was a hard one, since it was the first delivery after their deaths.

Then, today, I was talking to a friend of mine (she figured out I was pregnant before I told anyone but DH) and she asked me point blank if I was pregnant.  I asked her what would make her think that, and she said she had this intense intuition last night and then again this morning.  How weird is that?

I know that I want to be pregnant.  I know that I want to hold my healthy baby in my arm, and nurse it and whatnot.  I am missing that so much right now.  But, I also know I really need to heal emotionally from the tramatic loss of my girls.  Tramatic, and unexpected loss.  I'm no expert on dreams, but I know that I have never had a dream like either of those unless I was pregnant already, so I wonder if it's my subconscious telling me that I'm going to get pregnant, unexpectedly, again?  Any thoughts?

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    haziedazehaziedaze member
    I've been having some vivid dreams too, its like my subconscious is working overtime. Good luck! Hope it works out!
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    GaberinosGaberinos
    Sometimes I have some really strange dreams that I can definitely not understand, but have had some similar to yours as well. I actually had one recently where I was at my in-laws and was really nauseas and found out I was pregnant around new years. I just barely am getting over my miscarriage, though, so I don't think that will happen since the Dr. said to wait until after 1-2 cycles. I also have really strange ones, like I am having a litter of kittens or even stranger. I have had some pretty cute ones though with these adorable little kids surrounding me. I always have to tell my husband my dreams and he gets a kick out of how strange and detailed some of them are. I will say right before I met my husband I kept having dreams of this random guy and actually saw some life events that took place. When I met him for the first time I ran away at first because I was terrified, then, after talking with him more realized many of the stories matched. Sometimes are dreams are very telling. Honestly, you never know, but many people are gifted with having wonderful intuition. I hope that everything works out for you. That is a really neat story. Thanks for sharing :)
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    dana1318adana1318a

    I'm so sorry for your losses ((hugs)).  Dreams are not always meant to be interperated literally.  So a dream that you are having a baby could represent a new beginning (maybe you're starting to feel closure, and your subconscious is letting you know that!)  So I think it could mean that you're on your way to being where you need to be emotionally to try again :)

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