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Horrible Nightmare then no m/s :(

bananatiffbananatiff member
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Last night I went to bed fairly hungry, nothing new, and figured I would wake up around 1:30am as usual feeling horrible needing food.

Instead I woke up on and off all night not having that feeling, for the first time in 2 weeks.  I also had a horrible dream that I was in the bathroom and started bleeding, and saw the little tiny baby come out.   I was devastated in the dream, but when I woke up at 7:30... I just didn't feel right. (And by not right, I mean no sickness whatsoever)

I have not woke up feeling like this since the m/s started, and I have an odd calmness over me like I just know it's over now.  I have been so worried about something bad happening and now I just feel like I can relax because it is has and I can't change it.  This is such a sad feeling for me.  My appointment isn't until Wednesday, but I feel like I just know something is wrong.

I have no experience with pregnancy, has this happened to anyone who has m/c before?  Or maybe not m/c?  I know I should just not worry, but that's the thing, I'm not.

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Re: Horrible Nightmare then no m/s :(

  • HelloAnnie!HelloAnnie! member
    No advice, but I hope that everything is all right and that you are able to keep calm.  
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    TTC#2 for 4 years: multiple rounds of IVF, M/Cs, lots of tears.  Cautiously optimistic about #2 EDD 12/29/18
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  • smaleriesmalerie

    Oh honey, I'm so sorry for your dream.  I will be captain obvious here, and point out that it was just a dream, not reality.  And lots of women on the board have pointed out that their symptoms have either significantly decreased or gone away all together.  I know that your intuition may be saying that something is wrong, but that my not be the case at all.

    If you are really concerned, call your doctor and see if you can move your appointment up.  Or you can go to the ER.  More than anything else, try and relax.  You wont do yourself any good worrying.  HTH. ((hugs))

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  • germanpicklegermanpickle member

    Hi,

    I had a miscarriage earlier this year and I did not have anything similiar to your experience. I do, however, struggle with the fears that I will lose this pregnancy as well.

    Please stay calm today and contact your doctor tomorrow. Explain that you are concerned and would like to speak to the doctor. If they "laugh" at you, or "dismiss" you, I'd try another practice. Not because I think something is really wrong, but because stress during pregnancy isn't recommended.

    Take care!

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  • ksulliksulli member
    I've been feeling queasie most mornings, and having m/c dreams, then Thursday morning I felt like a million bucks, which I told as a bad thing. Friday I saw a HB. Sometimes dreams are just dreams.
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  • bananatiffbananatiff member

    Thanks ladies.  I don't know what I'd do without you other July moms.  I hope to have something positive to post on Wednesday afternoon. 

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  • amberleigh723amberleigh723
    I know how real dreams can feel and how freaked out you can be by them...BUT try to relax. When I hit 6 weeks I was run over by the MS train full bore - at 7 weeks I felt fabulous all week except for one day - so in my experience - don't worry about morning sickness coming and going - it is normal for your stage in the game...Advice? Relax, take it easy today, drink lots of water, and try not to freak too much unless you start bleeding or cramping...Good luck :)
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  • CactusGirlCactusGirl member

    Sorry you had such a bad dream! Like others have said, people have posted on here how m/s comes and goes, so I don't think you should think too much into it.

    And about dreams, I have had the most realistic dreams of getting a BFP in previous months (which never happened) and dreams that I've fallen off cliffs... which has never happened IRL Smile. They are just dreams, nothing more.


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  • mrs.conanananmrs.conananan
    Someone was talking about no m/s earlier and they said it can come and go.  Just take a break and rest today.
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  • SarenaFSarenaF

    Symptoms will fluctuate throughout, so try not to worry about the m/s.  You needed a break from the queasy & puking anyways.  My dreams have been really vivid recently, and I'll wake up remembering every detail, including how I felt.  Since most pg women are anxious about something bad happening anyways, I'm sure it was easy for your brain to play tricks on your emotions after that surreal dream.

    Hope you're able to relax.  I look forward to hearing your good news Wednesday!

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  • jloterojlotero member

    Please know that us July moms are here for you! I hope this helps, but I had the exact same dream last night. To be honest, since I found out i was pregnant I have had the fear of miscarriage in the back of my mind. I think my dream last night was just my fear entering into my dream, nothing more than that. Definitely know that you are not alone in having these types of thoughts and feelings, we're here for ya! Keep us posted about Wednesday!

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  • Mrs.Leah.MariaMrs.Leah.Maria member
    imagesmalerie:

    Oh honey, I'm so sorry for your dream.  I will be captain obvious here, and point out that it was just a dream, not reality.  And lots of women on the board have pointed out that their symptoms have either significantly decreased or gone away all together.  I know that your intuition may be saying that something is wrong, but that my not be the case at all.

    Love this. I've had dreams in the past about intruders to the point that I've already plotted my actions and I have complete resignation that it's just going to happen. But it doesn't, even if I hear a strange noise downstairs.

    Ditto pp, even if your appt is Wednesday, see if they can get you in earlier if you're concerned. It will help your sanity.

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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member

    No, I never dreamed about a mc, I had to live the nightmare. 

    Dreams manifest your worries and subconscious...they do not predict the future. 

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  • aligator423ufaligator423uf
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    Dreams manifest your worries and subconscious...they do not predict the future. 

    This. Normally whatever I'm worried or anxious about comes up in my dreams. I had a dream that I m/c last week, and even took an hpt afterward because it scared me. Of course I got another bfp, and i've had minimal symptoms since then. I think most of us are scared about the possibility, but you just have to stay positive that everything is fine and normal.

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