I'm 29 wks now, and I'd really like to get our car seat bought. With all the early deliveries on here, you just have to realize that even if you had 2 prior full term births, it could very much happen at any time. DH would like to wait until the beginning of Jan, when I'll be 36wks.
Really, what do you think it the absolute latest we should wait to buy a car seat? My prior deliveries were at 38/almost 39wks, and 37wks.
Re: What's the latest you'd wait to buy a car seat?
I pressured DH into getting ours just a few weeks ago. He wanted to wait, too, until December. I gave him a Hellz No and told him if he didn't get it with me, I'd go get it myself- and after he saw how big the box was (and knowing I would make good on a threat like that) he obliged me.
I'm soon going to use this tactic on getting a new vehicle.
Are you ordering it online or buying in-store? Maybe you could go down the Black Friday road and see if you can find a deal on it...
We have been watching the flyers and we have our two infant car seats (one is new as part of a travel system, and one is used that I got from my sister), and our two convertible car seats - we got all of them on sale. We are just storing the convertibles until we need them (both of them we got from midnight madness sales for an exceptional deal, or else we probably wouldn't have them yet). I say get them now and then you don't have to worry about it. Are there any good black Friday deals you could take advantage of?
ETA: No, I'm not having twins, but we don't want to have to hassle with moving car seats in both vehicles all the time...and the one infant car seat was free from my sister.
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This exactly. But I understand the desire to have it ready (we got ours around 30w) and hope your husband comes around. I don't think they really get the urge some of us have to have everything READY.
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I bought my infant car seat some time in my 5th month. I waited for a sale at Target & utilized a coupon and a gift card.
I bought another base a little while later. Babies R Us will give you 20% off coupons if you join their rewards program. I got the 2nd base at BRU.
We had one base installed in hubby's SUV about 5 weeks before due date. I'm a worrier by nature, and the last thing I wanted is hubby running around getting the car seat installed while I'm in the middle of labor.
We have one convertible seat that I snatched up on clearance.
*We're trading in my car soon... so I haven't installed the base in my car, yet.
This would be fine... if I HAD any family nearby.
Friggitall, I'm not trying to get stuff last minute, people!! I don't care what SIL you have who did it and it worked for them, I'm trying to ask people who actually LIKE to plan ahead and be ready for things when they got one/when they think I should get one. For real, getting one while I'm at the hospital is NOT what I have in mind. I prefer my DH to be in the hospital WITH ME and the new baby instead of running to some store and picking out the cheapest POS he can find. Sorry, but you girls who are giving me this 'he can go get it while you're in the hospital' crap SOUND LIKE you're insinuating or suggesting that I just wait. Even if that's not what you're saying, that's how I hear it. For real, that's unreasonable.
I do think about 32 wks is the absolute latest we should wait. I had my other babies a smidge early, so it wouldn't hurt to get it early. With both of our last kids we had our car seat by 26wks!