April 2011 Moms

Months/Weeks pregnant-im confused.

Ok, so i am 19 weeks pregnant right now. I will not start saying that I am 5 months pregnant until I am in my 20th week, when I am a full 5 months pregnant and into my 6th month (ie, 5 months and 1 week, etc). You know, like a birthday. I'm 23, so im currently living my 24th year of life and have lived a full 23 years.

I have a friend on facebook who is still 4 weeks and a few days out from her due date, but says she is 9 months pregnant.

Which way is the correct way? Ps..i hope im not explaining this totally confusingly.

Re: Months/Weeks pregnant-im confused.

  • I have NO idea. I am 20 wks 6 days, and I will probably say that I am 5 months until I am 24 weeks. Its all kind of confusing if you go by months, and not weeks.
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  • I don't use months at all, which sometimes confuses my non-parent coworkers.  Weeks makes more sense to me. 

    But at any rate, if I were your friend, I'd say that I'm 8 months pregnant.  If you say you're 9 months, it sounds like you're past your due date.  

  • imagemne0617:
    I have NO idea. I am 20 wks 6 days, and I will probably say that I am 5 months until I am 24 weeks. Its all kind of confusing if you go by months, and not weeks.

    I hate when people ask me how many months. It makes so much more sense as weeks but when people insist on having months instead of weeks, I just I'm in a certain month (like I'm in my 5th month). This way I can say it for awhile and no one really keeps track.

    There was a cool link someone posted on a different board that broke it down but I can't remember it. I'll try to find it!

  • If she's 4 weeks from her due date, isn't she 9 months pregnant?  She hit the nine month mark at 36 weeks, just like at 20 weeks you will hit the 5 month mark.  If you take 40 weeks and divide by 4 weeks per "month," you get 10 months.

     

    ETA: sorry, I said 32 weeks, and meant 36. 

  • You are technically pregnant for 41 weeks total.  The issue is that not every month has the same amount of days in it.  I go by weeks.  I say I'm x amount of weeks pregnant and if I go late I'll just say I'm x days/week past my due date.
  • It's hard to go by months since 40 weeks is closer to 10 months.  On the 10th of this month I was 5 months from my due date, so it seems like I should only be 4 months and change right now.
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  • This site is super helpful and breaks down the weeks and months:

    https://www.baby2see.com/pregnancylength.html

  • I think the whole nine month thing is really a myth - pregnancy is actually closer to 10 months.  So, I agree that going by weeks is a little simpler.
  • I don't say the months - period. Sorry, I'm weeks pregnant, not months. My OB doesn't tell me I'm "four months" or "in my fourth month" or whatever, it's "18 weeks" (I hit "4 months" since LMP at 17.5 weeks, so you can't even really depend on dividing by four).

    Though, for the record, since pregnancy is 40 weeks, your friend is 36 weeks, and is dividing by 4 and getting 9 months. It has nothing to do with being in the ninth month or anything like that. I would bet.

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  • I go strictly by weeks.  This my 3rd pregnancy and I still haven't figured the "months" out...so I give up. 

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  • A full term pregnancy is actually almost 10 months! But who wants to say that?! I'll stick with weeks.
  • The average month is 4.333 weeks long.  The only month that is 4 weeks is a non-leap year February.  If you count from your LMP, it's approximately 9 months and one week until your due date (mine is 9 months plus 6 days).  There is also a difference between how many months pregnant and what month you're in, as PP said.  I just wrapped up 4 months, so I'm 4 months pregnant and in my fifth month.  That's why some people think pregnancy is 10 months long...

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  • I'm 18w5d and I now consider myself to be four months pregnant.  I base it on my due date and would say I just hit it two days ago.  Each month consists of more than four weeks so I don't automatically say I'm another month along when I've hit a multiple of four weeks. I'd say I'm five months on the 17th of next month which would make me 22w5d.
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  • Someone explained it a good way to me, this is KIND of how you could see it.  At 20 weeks you are 5 months and at 23 weeks and 6 days you are 5 months STILL, but at 24 weeks you are 6 months...so this is what I go by IF someone asks me how many months I am...

    1-4 = 0-1 month                    12-16 = 3 months          24-28 = 6 months

    4-8 = 1 month                       16-20 = 4 months          28-32 = 7 months

    8-12 = 2 months                    20-24 = 5 months         32-36 = 8 months

                                                                                  36-40 = 9 months

    Now I know a lot of people would think this is a BS made up calendar, but I am just saying, IF someone asks you month wise, I kind of go by this and explain that a full pregnancy is 40weeks and 6days, making you 1 day short of going into the start of 10 months. Hope this helps a little. :-)

  • Dividing by 4 weeks to figure out how many months along you are works well early in pregnancy, but each month (except February) has a few days more than 4 weeks.  So the later in pregnancy you are, the less accurate it is.  For example, if you divide 40 weeks by 4, you get 10 months. . . but you're actually at 9 months and a little over a week. 

    Ok, I'm a nerd. 

  • I was going to ask this a few days ago too.  I just met another lady that said she was 5 months (and I said that I was four).  I used months to avoid cofusion for the others around us.  Later I found out that she was due a few days after me.  I was really confused - obviously we were counting our months differently.
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  • Ugh. Math. I just say weeks or make something up when people ask...
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  • This.  I can't stand it when people say a month is 4 weeks; a weird pet peeve of mine.  It's 4.33 weeks!!!
  • I just started my 17th week so I'm saying I'm starting my 5th month when i hit 20 i'll say i'm at the end of the 5th month. Sounds wierd but no ones complained.
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