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Just Stop Trying

leecrystalwed08leecrystalwed08
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I am sitting at work and we have a coordinator that comes in to work here for the day (She has no idea who I am) Me and my other coworkers were talking about my RE appointment and this chick stops in and says:

"You know if you just stop trying you will get pregnant, thats how it happened for me"

My coworkers kinda looked down and knew the rath of Crystal was about to let this woman have it. I felt like saying "Oh thank god they sent you Fairy God Mother! Can you cast a magic spell over my ovaries and POOF make me a baby" But I just calmly looked at her and said " No I never thought of trying that, I'll talk to my husband about it tonight since ya know... the first year didnt work maybe it will now"

She walked out and my boss looked at me and mouthed the words " I am so sorry" I'm not mad I just think people are stupid Wink

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Re: Just Stop Trying

  • pinkwife8506pinkwife8506
    How rude! Some people will just never understand what we are going through.
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  • MrsVoMrsVo member
    Some people are so clueless.  What an idiot!!  I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • leecrystalwed08leecrystalwed08

    You know I use to get upset when people would say it but now I am use to the dumb comments and I am always up to make someone feel stupid  LOL! Thats not very nice ~ Sorry!

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  • jiffy-popjiffy-pop member
    I wish people would keep their shotty advice to themselves.
    Married 5/31/08 * TTC#1 9/09 - 2/11
    after anovulatory diagnosis and TTC for 1 1/2yrs with several medicated cycles and one chemical pregnancy, we have our first bundle of joy!
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  • PMTeaglePMTeagle member
    It sucks that SO many people are just totally clueless.
    Stopped BCP 7/08 BFP 11/09 - Natural MC 12/09 PCOS 2/10 - Began taking Metformin Femara with trigger from 3/10-7/10 IUI#1 7/10 - BFN Taking a break while I work on my Masters... Now cycling on my own with Metformin. BFP 2/18/11!!! Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • lamnt83lamnt83
    How did you not totally flip out?! Good for you for keeping your composure!
    ~Lindsey~
    Annovulation/Amenorrhea/Mild Endo Scarring

    10 Cycles with Femera/Bravelle, even Clomid 1x + Ovidrel + IUI + Crinone = 10 BFNs

    4/2011 Bravelle + Ovidrel + IUI + Crinone + HOPE = 1st BFP EDD 01/21/12

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  • Ms H13Ms H13 member
    imageleecrystalwed08:

    You know I use to get upset when people would say it but now I am use to the dumb comments and I am always up to make someone feel stupid  LOL! Thats not very nice ~ Sorry!

    My thoughts are if they're going to be rude it's perfectly appropriate for you to respond this way.  Loved your response by the way!

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