TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

New to the group

I just found the TTC After a Loss group.  I have been on this site before and have posted to other topics but this is the first time I clicked on the Infertility topic.  I guess I've been in denial for the past...oh, 15 months since DH and I began TTC again after miscarrying our first baby.  I didn't want to use the term to describe myself.  Coming out of the "I have a crappy reproductive system" closet is great though.  I finally made an appointment with an RE (appointment on December 6th!) and maybe now I will get some results.  The first step towards pregnancy is admitting you have a problem right?  Or is that recovery?  Whatever.  Since everyone I know seems to have gotten pregnant in the past 6 months I am fast running out of people to talk to about the misery of wanting a baby and not having one.  I may actually have to move to another state and start befriending much younger people to get away from all my fat and happy pregnant BFF's.  I need to go make friends with twenty year old law or med students.  They have so much school ahead of them that they won't be wanting a baby for a loooooong time.  That way I won't have to deal with yet ANOTHER friend getting KU while I come up with BFN month after month.

Bitter Childless Woman Seeks Likeminded Company for Conversations about Fallopian Tubes, Spotting, Ovulation, Luteal Phases and Hormones.  Hobbies include long walks on the beach and peeing on sticks at various times of the month.

Re: New to the group

  • Welcome to the board, I am very sorry for your loss. And hope that your RE can help you bring home your sticky baby.

     

  • Loading the player...
  • I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome to the board.  I think you'll find we are all pretty bitter here too.  It is an amazing source of support though.  GL at your RE appt!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board. 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Definitely some bitterness going on here.  Welcome to the board.  I hope that you have an awesome appointment.
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Good luck with your RE appointment!
  • Sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Welcome to the board. So sorry for your loss. I hear you on needing to make some new friends, seems everyone around me already has kids or is pregnant.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

    my blog

  • I'm sorry for your loss & struggle.  You're in company here though.  Welcome to the group.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

    image

    * PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) * 
    * CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
    * Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d * 
    * PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 * 
    * DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • you're in the right place for bitterness.  I'm sorry for your loss..welcome!
  • i'm sorry for your loss. 

    Welcome to the board and sounds like you'll fit right in.

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
  • Sorry about your loss, but welcome to the board.  It sounds like you'll fit right in here :)

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • You had me at "peeing on sticks..."

    As everyone has said, welcom and I'm so sorry you're here. I hope you find some answers next month. That was always one of the most frustrating things - not knowing WTF was wrong with me.

  • Welcome to the board.
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

    imageimageimage
  • I'm sorry for your loss but welcome to the board!  I'm plenty bitter too.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I am very sorry you find yourself here. Welcome!
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"