I just found the TTC After a Loss group. I have been on this site before and have posted to other topics but this is the first time I clicked on the Infertility topic. I guess I've been in denial for the past...oh, 15 months since DH and I began TTC again after miscarrying our first baby. I didn't want to use the term to describe myself. Coming out of the "I have a crappy reproductive system" closet is great though. I finally made an appointment with an RE (appointment on December 6th!) and maybe now I will get some results. The first step towards pregnancy is admitting you have a problem right? Or is that recovery? Whatever. Since everyone I know seems to have gotten pregnant in the past 6 months I am fast running out of people to talk to about the misery of wanting a baby and not having one. I may actually have to move to another state and start befriending much younger people to get away from all my fat and happy pregnant BFF's. I need to go make friends with twenty year old law or med students. They have so much school ahead of them that they won't be wanting a baby for a loooooong time. That way I won't have to deal with yet ANOTHER friend getting KU while I come up with BFN month after month.
Bitter Childless Woman Seeks Likeminded Company for Conversations about Fallopian Tubes, Spotting, Ovulation, Luteal Phases and Hormones. Hobbies include long walks on the beach and peeing on sticks at various times of the month.
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Welcome to the board, I am very sorry for your loss. And hope that your RE can help you bring home your sticky baby.
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12
* PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) *
* CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
* Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d *
* PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 *
* DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *
i'm sorry for your loss.
Welcome to the board and sounds like you'll fit right in.
Sorry about your loss, but welcome to the board. It sounds like you'll fit right in here
You had me at "peeing on sticks..."
As everyone has said, welcom and I'm so sorry you're here. I hope you find some answers next month. That was always one of the most frustrating things - not knowing WTF was wrong with me.