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Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Never thought it'd be me
Hi Ladies,
I started spotting 2 weekends ago and didn't think much of it b/c I had spotted with DD but they checked my hCG leves on Weds, Friday and Monday and they were 2700, 3600 and I think 5200. So they didn't double once within 48 hrs. I'm having an ultrasound tomorrow morning to see what they can see. I don't have any of my pregnancy symptoms anymore, no bloating, tender breasts...so I think this is it.
My husband has been away on business since last weekend and it's been so hard. He won't be there tomorrow for the ultrasound.
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Re: Never thought it'd be me
BFP#1 - 8/27/10 - D&C 10/27/10 @ 13 weeks to Trisomy 18
Missing our Angel Baby Gabriel
BFP#2 - 3/18/11 - CP 3/19/11 BFP#3 - 4/27/11 - Due 1/9/12
I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.
My FI was away as well. It was really hard to go through it without him, but my family and friends were my rock. I hope you have someone you can lean on, but if not, we on this board are always here for you.
Good luck.
July 2007 m/c 6 weeks
November 2010 m/c 7 weeks 1 day
MTHFR (Compound hetero with copies of A & C)
I'm so sorry. I had less than stellar betas too, and then a heartbeat and things looked back on track, but alas, ended in m/c.
Can you take a good friend with you to the u/s? If it is bad news, it would be good to have someone there who can listen to the doctor and process what s/he is saying. I heard the doctor tell us where to go at the hospital and timing but even though she repeated it 5 times I didn't remember any of it and had to rely on my husband.
Hello there,
I am so sorry that you are going through this. ITA with the PP about seeing if you can get someone to go with you to help you process whatever information the doctor tells you. On top of it being helpful to have an emotional support, I know that I promptly forgot or didn't even absorb a lot of the info that my doctor told me.
My T&P are with you.
I'm sorry to say my story was the same. My DH was out of town when I found out at my u/s the heart had stopped beating. I think back on it though and actually don't know if I could have handled anybody seeing me in that amount of emotional pain. Being alone allowed me to cry it out without worrying how anyone else was handling the news. My DH flew home that evening to be with me and that helped. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dh.
BFP #1 9-22-10 Missed M/c 10-18-10 D&E 10-28-10
BFP #2 5-9-11 EDD 1-12-12 Audrey Rachel born 1-12-12
BFP #3 9-21-13 EDD 5-30-14
