Community› The Bump Message Boards› Preemies
Preemies
New Discussion

Today Sucks (sensetive)

Kate621Kate621 member
in Preemies
This morning a baby died in our NICU. The mom was staying here at the Ronald McDonald House. I woke up this morning to her screaming. Her baby was 7 weeks old and doing really well. I am a mess. I don't think I will ever understand why things happen the way they do.
Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
Report Reply to Post

Re: Today Sucks (sensetive)

  • *Sweet pea**Sweet pea* member
    I'm so sorry.  I dont think i'll ever understand it either.  ((((((BIG HUGS))))))
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • ssg73ssg73
    Yup today sucks.  I am so sorry for the families loss.  I can not imagine the pain that they are in right now.  Hugs
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • kamcfarlanekamcfarlane member
    the idea makes my heart stop. thoughts and prayers to you and the family.
    Report Reply
  • ESM354ESM354
    I can't even imagine the pain that family is going through. Also, it is super scary that you found out about it.  I loved the fact that in the nicu I was sheltered from all of that type of stuff.  Just keep focusing on how good little Jack is doing and know that he will be coming home with you soon.  Hugs!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • luvdv8luvdv8 member
    I just had all the breath sucked out of me reading that- I just can't imagine.
    Our Little Family Keeps Growing! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • ShannonSkyShannonSky member

    imageluvdv8:
    I just had all the breath sucked out of me reading that- I just can't imagine.

    Exactly this...that poor family :(  

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker TickerPregnancy Ticker
    Report Reply
  • morganoremorganore
    imageShannonSky:

    imageluvdv8:
    I just had all the breath sucked out of me reading that- I just can't imagine.

    Exactly this...that poor family :(  

     

    omg :( I'm sorry 

    Report Reply
  • IrishsapphireIrishsapphire member
    I am really sorry.  It really brings tears to my eyes when this happens. 
    imageimageLilypie - Personal pictureLilypie Premature Baby tickers Lilypie Premature Baby tickers image BFP on 07/18/08. Miscarriage 07/30/08. BFP 3/25/09. Confirmed second miscarriage, no heartbeat, no growth beyond 7 weeks, 5/19/09. TTC again, on baby aspirin, due to value of 23 on Anticardiolipin Antibodies. BFP 11/15/09. Brown spotting, Beta 3735 11/25/09, Beta 5602 11/28/09. Anticardiolipin Antibodies now negative, still on baby asprin. On 100 mg of Prometrium (progesterone) until 10 weeks. Good heartbeat at 1st appt. 12/16/09. Started taking fish oil. Perigestational hemorrhage and red bleeding 12/17/09. 2nd Ultrasound-8 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/17/09. Baby measured 9 weeks, still a heartbeat 12/23/09. Good NT Scan on 1/8/10, heartbeat 164. EDD 7/28/10. TEAM BLUE! Aidan Thomas born on May 26, 2010. Baby #2, BFP 11/27/11, EDD 6/5/12. TEAM PINK! Noelle Elizabeth born 4/30/12. Blessing from God, Blessing from God, Blessing from God, Blessing from God.
    Report Reply
  • hollerjeepgirlhollerjeepgirl member
    Oh my God, I'm so sorry you had to hear that and for their loss. This is why I'm petrified to give birth right now :(
    Jackson W. Holler born 12/9/10 at 7:52 a.m. He is my little miracle baby!! pPROM'ed at 23w1d and delivered at 34w Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
    Report Reply
  • ArvadaBrideArvadaBride

    I'm late to reply but my T&P's go not only to that family but to you as well.  I know that shakes all of us to the core. 

    I'm so sorry you had to witness such an unfair part of life.  Huge hugs Kate

    <img src=
    Report Reply
  • luckycookyluckycooky
    This way my greatest fear in the NICU.  Not just for our baby but those around us.  I cannot imagine...
    image
    Report Reply
  • beyogabeyoga member
    I'm late in responding but T & P's to them and their family.  I pray for all the babies in our NICU and will add them to my list.
    Report Reply
  • lemen99lemen99 member
    :(:(
    Report Reply
  • mackislandbridemackislandbride member

    I understand how you feel completely.  Our first week at Ron's house 3 babies became angels.  3 more grew wings before we left 75 days later and unfortunately being part of the Heart Family community we still hear of more losses.  I, too, will never understand why some have to go through so much and still not go home with their families.

    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"