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Is swaddling a new trend or what?

My mother in law was flat out rude about my putting my 5 week old in the SwaddleMes, calling them a straight jacket and saying that she couldn't breathe.  Every chance she could she would unswaddle her or make a comment about how she thought the baby was uncomfortable.  It's not like she's swaddled every second of the day or something, just at night and when she gets cranky or overstimulated.

I would chalk this up to my mother in law's usual mean and opinionated nature, but my own parents kind of hinted at the same thing.

Thoughts?

Re: Is swaddling a new trend or what?

  • Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.
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  • Swaddling has been around forever.  Swaddleme's are now around because some realized that they could make a lot of money off of a concept that has been used for generations.

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  • swaddling has been around for ages. My mother laughed at me when I asked her if she knew how to swaddle. She showed me a thing or two!
  • As PP said, it's been around forever. But my MIL is the exact same as yours - she always says how he "hates" swaddling, and ends up taking him out when she gets a chance. He definitely does fight a little at the start but then relaxes and ends up sleeping longer (usually). I just pick my battles with her though!
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    As PP said, it's been around forever. But my MIL is the exact same as yours - she always says how he "hates" swaddling, and ends up taking him out when she gets a chance. He definitely does fight a little at the start but then relaxes and ends up sleeping longer (usually). I just pick my battles with her though!

    DH hates the swaddle, I try to convince him that I don't swaddle DS during the day and his naps only last for about 30 min. So if he doesn't want to get up about 90 times a night, he'd better leave the kid in the swaddle!!

    Oh and last night Houdini over here broke free of it somehow and I blamed DH, it was so funny in hindsight... he says "I never took him out of that straightjacket!" Cracks me up. I think DS is getting ready to want his arms free though, so I'm going to get some more sleep sacks.  

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  • Swaddling has been around forever but I think using the SwaddleMe/Miracle Blankets just make it look mean. Its the only way our LO can sleep sound though! Who cares what she says :) Shes rude for unwrapping your baby! Plus, swaddling helps prevent SIDs or so "they" say.
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  • My grandmother was convinced I was "choking" DD when we used to swaddle her. I just roll my eyes at her.

    Swaddling is grand.

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    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

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    imageSweets2005:
    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

    LOL!

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    imageSweets2005:
    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

    *love this*



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  • DH's grandma is the same way. DD was sleeping and she walked up and unswaddled her, saying she must be too hot. Needless to say, DD woke up. Angry
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  • My mom seems entirely against the idea of swaddling however after just about everytime she unswaddles her she just puts her in a looser swaddle. It makes me laugh.
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    imageSweets2005:
    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

    LOL!

     

    Hahah, yeah I know.  I think maybe, like breastfeeding, swaddling has just come back into "style" or something. 

  • Swaddling has been around forever. My great grandma actually taught it to my grandma when her kids were babies, and my grandma showed it to my mom when I was a colicky, crabby baby. Our son is swaddled at night and it seems to help him sleep sounder and longer, plus it keeps him from shifting onto his side (which he seems to be a big fan of.)
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    imageVenus04d:
    imageSweets2005:
    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

    LOL!

     

    Hahah, yeah I know.  I think maybe, like breastfeeding, swaddling has just come back into "style" or something. 

    It's possible. The 50's-70's are certainly marked as a period of time when things like breastfeeding, baby wearing, soothing were thrown out the window and replaced by formula and preventive behavior to ward off "spoiling". My mom and MIL both formula fed and are big on CIO and such, but they still swaddled. 

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    imageSweets2005:
    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

    LOL!

    That's what I was going to say, the the Bible actually references "swaddling cloths" in the Christmas story.

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    My mother in law was flat out rude about my putting my 5 week old in the SwaddleMes, calling them a straight jacket and saying that she couldn't breathe.  Every chance she could she would unswaddle her or make a comment about how she thought the baby was uncomfortable.  It's not like she's swaddled every second of the day or something, just at night and when she gets cranky or overstimulated.

    I would chalk this up to my mother in law's usual mean and opinionated nature, but my own parents kind of hinted at the same thing.

    Thoughts?

     

    Have they never seen a nativity scene?? lol :)

    Plenty of things that are great for babies had gone by the wayside in the past century (swaddling, babywearing, BFing, etc)... thank god for the internet, now we dont have to rely soley on what our MIL's tell us! 

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  • ahhhh my point was already made.. guess i should have read before posting lol. 
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  • imageVenus04d:

    imageSweets2005:
    Definitely not. Babies have been swaddled for ions.

    Seriously. Jesus was swaddled.

    Oh - I thought she was talking about electrons.
  • swaddlemes are new but swaddling- not at all. My mom even knew how to do it and I'm 31.
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