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My OBGYN is an effing idiot.

This week I had an ultrasound done at my OBGYN?s office to check on some cysts that I had in July.  While I was there, I attempted to show my doctor my chart.  This is how it went:

 

Me: I have been charting since my last cycle on BC ended. *pushes chart towards doctor*

 

Doctor:  Oh.  Those things are actually very useless.  Nobody uses them anymore because they don?t really tell you anything.  Some doctors still have women do them simply to keep them busy and make them feel involved. *pushes chart away*

 

Me: Oh.  *Thinking WTF?!?!*

 

So, instead of confirming ovulation by charting, the doctor wants me to have a blood test done on CD21 to see if I ovulated.  If I don?t ovulate by CD 21, he wants to put me on clomid. Oh, and he also said that he does not monitor patients while they?re on clomid because he?s never had a patient experience harmful side effects (thinning of the uterine lining, etc.) I think he?s totally fvcked up in the head.

Re: My OBGYN is an effing idiot.

  • Annnnd...time for a new doctor!!
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  • Too bad you live so far away from me, we could doctor-hunt together!
                                       
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  • Run from that doctor as fast as you can!   What a moron.

    Seriously, I O'd every cycle... but usually on CD22.   According to your doc and his CD21 test, I don't O.    What an idiot. 

    FYI... this most recent pregnancy - I O'd on CD24.

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  • Good thing you are smart & realize he is an idiot! I feel sorry for the people that don't know any better and listen to people like him. GL in the search for a new dr.

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  • OMG! WHAT?!?!?! OMG! I would have asked him to hand over your records right there!!!!

    I hope you find someone better really soon!

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  • I see 3 reasons in that post as to why you need a new doctor.


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  • Definitely get yourself a new dr!
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  • That is total bs. Fire him and move on, lol.
  • Run run as fast as you can! My OB gave me kudos when I told her I was starting to chart and said it will help me know my body better and can relay info more accurately. This guy needs to get out of his current profession. Happy OB Hunting!
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    I see 3 reasons in that post as to why you need a new doctor.

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  • Wow, you must be seeing my sister's obgyn.  She was on clomid for 4 cycles, not monitored except for the progesterone on cd 1.  She was even getting AF on a regular basis before her doc putting her on it.  Her doc didn't think she was O'ing and her first cycle off clomid I finally convinced her to chart her temps.  She O'd on cd26 and got pg that cycle.  Go figure!  I can't believe your doc said charting is useless and they don't tell you anything.  Moron!
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  • imageCatahoulaMom:
    Too bad you live so far away from me, we could doctor-hunt together!

    since my move 500 miles away from my doctor. I need to find one too.. lets dr hunt together! ughh i wish

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  • imagemoosegal:
    Annnnd...time for a new doctor!!

    Great advice!

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  • Yep, sounds like you need a new OBGYN.  What a moron.
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  • I just don't understand how someone that is supposed to be intelligent can be so uninformed about something in their field like that!  I would never have expected such incompetency! I definitely think it's time for a different doctor.
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  • Wow. Just wow. What a moron. The "charting is useless" is bad enough, but the "no monitoring on Clomid" is horrible.

    I hate to think how many women who aren't as informed as you have been misguided by this twit.

    I hope you are able to find someone else soon!  

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