TTC After a Loss

You know why DDs suck?

Because some of us come up with some really funny PIPs and we get no say if they go poof.  I don't post my PIPs for the goat's benefit, but to make you ladies laugh.  It makes me sad when they go poof. 
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Re: You know why DDs suck?

  • We should have a "Recover the awesome PIPs" post after all DDs so we can raise them from the dead.
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  • what does DD mean in this case?!?! LOL

    I have to say I tried to look for the TTCAL blog and I cannot find it, can you help me?  and then the glossary for TTCAL. Can't see that either! sometimes I get confused!

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  • Yes we do have some good ones, but the one I miss is the Monopoly one that I think Ambrandau had!
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  • imagelorlei13:
    We should have a "Recover the awesome PIPs" post after all DDs so we can raise them from the dead.

    Best idea!  We should make a "Honoring the Goat" post after each DD! 

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  • imagejenrdh01:

    what does DD mean in this case?!?! LOL

    I have to say I tried to look for the TTCAL blog and I cannot find it, can you help me?  and then the glossary for TTCAL. Can't see that either! sometimes I get confused!

    =Dirty Delete
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  • imagejenrdh01:

    what does DD mean in this case?!?! LOL

    I have to say I tried to look for the TTCAL blog and I cannot find it, can you help me?  and then the glossary for TTCAL. Can't see that either! sometimes I get confused!

    DD = Dirty Delete and it means when a poster deletes a post for getting butt hurt

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  • Here...let me help you....

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    Could I be pregnant?!?!?!

    I had a miscarriage about 2 months ago.  I bled for 10 days and haven't had a cycle since.  My OB told us to wait 3 cycles...but oooopppps.  I haven't been charting or using OPKs.  I did have some spotting around 8 days ago..maybe implantation bleeding.  Now my boobs are killing me and I've been nausous.  Should I call my doctor or just take a HPT?  What should I do?!?!

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    A few not so nice responses....then this....

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    This is my first post and I had a miscarriage just like you girls.  I'm hurting too.  Why are you being so mean?

     

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  • Wow, bled for 10 days and then nothing?  When I had my m/c,  I bled for 3 1/2 weeks straight.  After my m/c, I did not even ovulate before AF showed up.  "Oooops" - yea.  UGH.  I might have responded with some nastiness to that post myself, had I seen it.

     

     

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  • I agree they take all our hard work and trash it,
  • I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. It reminds me of high school bullying days. I guess Im just an all around nice person.
  • imagecpedersen27:
    I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. It reminds me of high school bullying days. I guess Im just an all around nice person.

    Guess I'm just an all around b!tch then. 

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  • imagecpedersen27:
    I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. It reminds me of high school bullying days. I guess Im just an all around nice person.
    Well....thats nice...

    Would you like it if a complete stranger came up to you and asked if you thought she could be pg? We are nice--we are sticking up for the women that are on this board that we care about. Especially for the ones that arevlosing their 2nd, 3d+ pg while we speak.  

    But thanks for calling us all bullies. Sure fire way t not make friends on here.
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  • imagecpedersen27:
    I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. It reminds me of high school bullying days. I guess Im just an all around nice person.

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    imagecpedersen27:
    I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. It reminds me of high school bullying days. I guess Im just an all around nice person.
    Well....thats nice...

    Would you like it if a complete stranger came up to you and asked if you thought she could be pg? We are nice--we are sticking up for the women that are on this board that we care about. Especially for the ones that arevlosing their 2nd, 3d+ pg while we speak.  

    But thanks for calling us all bullies. Sure fire way t not make friends on here.

    Thanks Shanna, for saying what I wanted to say but couldn't find nice enough words for.

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  • Well BT, you couldn't be nice b/c you are a mean bully! Duh!
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  • imageshanna82:
    Well BT, you couldn't be nice b/c you are a mean bully! Duh!

    But it is so fun to push the kids wearing high water pants down the stairs!

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  • ^ Such a fitting picture in your signature for that post haha 

     

    imagecpedersen27:
    I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. 

    Everyone's fighting their own battles. Who knows what the other person is going through -- why add to it? Plus, it's far too easy to get butt hurt over misinterpreting intentions (happens a heck of a lot on TheBump), tone, and hidden meanings. 

    Anyway... Don't feel the need to defend yourself here. It's the Internet. It's stupid to act tough or fight on here.  It's unnecessary. This is support forum, not a sparring ground. 

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  • imageNurseMom1:

    ^ Such a fitting picture in your signature for that post haha 

    imagecpedersen27:
    I don't realy understand why anyone is mean on here, for any reason. 

    Everyone's fighting their own battles. Who knows what the other person is going through -- why add to it? Plus, it's far too easy to get butt hurt over misinterpreting intentions (happens a heck of a lot on TheBump), tone, and hidden meanings. 

    Anyway... Don't feel the need to defend yourself here. It's the Internet. It's stupid to act tough or fight on here.  It's unnecessary. This is support forum, not a sparring ground. 

    First of all. What does the bolded mean? I don't understand.

    Second of all. We all should "act tough" to defend our ground. If we just let every Tom, *** and Harry in here (or should I say Theresa, Danielle and Harriett) and post "OMGZ! MY BACK TOTS HURTS, MY BEWBS ARE SO SORE. DO YOU THINK I'M PREGGO??? I MEAN, IS IT TOO EARLY TO TEST? WHAT DO YOU LADIES THINK?"

    What the hell are we supposed to say?? With it being the first ever post from said user, first time we are meeting them.... we don't know anything about them.... um. They get the huge Hmm from me! If you want to be all puppies and rainbows to them and say "Well my dear. Your back hurting and boob soreage are symptoms of pregnancy. So take a test and you'll see or not!" Then go ahead. Nobody is saying not to.

    If I want to say "FFS! Let me find my ute glasses so I can check for you, or see what my magic crystal ball says. I'm not a pee stick! I don't even know how "early" you claim to be to see how early it is for you to test. Just take a test and leave. At least post an introduction first." Then I should have the right to do that too!

    Who are YOU to tell me I can't?

     

    Anyways you are right. This is a support forum and i'm protecting the girls that support me. If you come on here and want me to tell you you're pregnant when you've given me zero support... you're not getting anything from me.


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  • ^ The bolded was referring to Gena's siggy, which was a picture from the 80's it looked like. Wasn't an insult towards her at all, it was just that mentioning of high water pants paired well with her siggy. 

     

    As for the rest of your message, I know things can get super, super heated on this message forum. We are full of raw emotions, and have gone through possibly the worst time of our lives (speaking of, just watched a TV show that had a character experiencing a miscarriage and I was actually a little upset at how well the character handled it. Grrr!!) We're bound to argue over things.

    You're a good friend for sticking up for the people you care about.  

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