So I was just curious as to how many of us on here have an older first child? I am TTC # 2 my DS just turned 7! I don't know where time has gone and I never planned on having children so far apart in age, but what do ya do!?
I feel the same way. DD will be 5 in a month, and I know I'm not in a family way now, so the closest I'll get is 6 years difference. That boggles my mind. I "wanted" (HA!!!) 2, maybe 3 years apart - 3 years MAX. I was supposed to be working on #3 by now!
I just spent the last hour looking at her baby pics. Not a great idea, really. I can't believe I once held an infant, an infant who was mine. She was so different then, and it's been so long... I had no idea what was to come. Funny - the first thing I said after she was born was "Oh my God, I want to do that again!!!" But, as you say, "what do ya do?" Not much - just hope, and pray.
I win! (just kidding lol) My dd will be 11 in January. She's a product of a previous relationship though, not this marriage.
I have days where I think I'm completely nuts for wanting to do it again but days that I can't wait.