I know what I'm feeling has to be some sort of PPD or PPOCD, but I can't say it out loud. I'm afraid that if I even speak the words, I'll spiral down a path of crazy. Not to mention telling someone the scary thoughts in my head. I don't think about harming anyone, but just the what if's and I feel like an awful mother. No matter how hard I try, they play over and over.
DH told me he's worried about me, but that he doesn't believe in PPD. All day yesterday, I just wanted to scream at everyone "help me" and was asking God for someone to recognize what's going on. I don't want to get out of bed today. I don't want to pick up DD or look DS in the eyes, because I don't want them to see what kind of mother I am. I can't breath.
Re: Afraid to tell someone
I know the feeling. Admitting it is the scariest part. But I can tell you this much - once I did, boy did I feel better. I felt like this huge weight had been lifted off my chest. I felt like I could focus on getting better because I didn't have to act anymore. I didn't have to cover up that I was sick. PPD is a REAL medical condition. Perhaps your DH needs to go to your Dr's appt with you. PLEASE, call your Dr. You don't need to keep feeling like this.
I was diagnosed with PPD and PP OCD. I didn't even tell my DH that I had a Dr's appt until I had the appt and got my script for Zoloft filled. I felt like a failure. I felt like I should have been able to handle everything. It wasn't that I could or couldn't handle everything - I had a medical condition. If you have bronchitis, you would go to the Dr. This isn't any different.
Please, call your Dr. immediately. Your children need you. You need you.
Oh mommy. Your post made me want to help you too! Is there anything I can do? Or any of us can do?
Please feel free to PM any of us. Take a deep breath! It is baby steps as pp said.
If your hubby isn't an option is their anyone else? My hubby didn't get it at first either and that was my breaking point. I know how it feels. I know exactly what you are feeling.
PM me. I'm here. Or facebook me facebook.com/sheinicklacher. I can add you as a friend and we can chat on the IM.
Its nothing to be ashamed of. Your hormones are outta wack. Remember you had a baby after carrying it for 9 months and taking care of it.
Stay strong and don't be afraid to get help. Your not alone.
How are you doing today?
email me if you like - blairbear111 at gmail
I have definitely been in your shoes & know how helpless you feel, but believe me, you will survive this. You are an amazing mother just by recognizing that something feels off.