Granted I'm not in a very good mood to begin with but my husband is a class a dumbass this evening.
He's looking for jobs- as usual.
Finds one in Djibouti and starts telling me about it. I ask what it is he would be doing.
"Oh it's a help desk job."
Ummm what? Isn't help desk a thousand times lower (not lower per se but it is pretty far removed from what he does now and it would provide nothing in way of career advancement) than what you do?
"Yea but it would be a nice little break from it all."
Like I said, I'm already in a bad mood and all I could think of was he wants to traipse on over to Africa to have a nice little break from it all doing a job that would be like sorting apples (again- not that help desk is like sorting apples but comparably speaking) while I sit at home doing nothing while life is continuing to pass me by.
That might be a tad dramatic but still. I can not even imagine that he would even entertain it. And his choice of words really sent me over the edge.
Re: L.i.v.i.d.
Hopefully he was just feeling you out and only mildly entertaining the idea.
I feel for you.
Yeah, I'd be upset, too. Hopefully it was just a passing thought that just didn't pass quite quick enough.
If not, I'll kick him in his Djibouti for you.
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Severe MFI - on to IVF w/ ICSI
IVF#1-2: BFN
IVF#3: BFP! - 1/24: ET - 5d - 2 blasts - 2/02: Beta #1: 16.2 ...... 2/04: Beta #2: 35 ...... 2/09: Beta #3: 401.5 - I'm pregnant! - 2/13: u/s #1 - baby boy, due 10/12, born 10/16! ...... 8 lbs 0 oz, 22 inches!
TTC#1 Chart
TTC#2 Chart
IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
IUI#5 on 10/28/2008 ** BFP 11/10/08 ** EDD 07/21/09 *** It's a GIRL (07/14/09)
med/treatment free BFP 06/28/10. EDD 03/05/11 *** GIRL #2 (02/23/11)
beta#1 @ 17dpo = 1296 .... beta#2 @ 19dpo = 3034
it's the Bug and Baby Belle!
TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!
My first thought was a flavored donut. Don't ask.
And Mr. Bunny needs to be slapped in the face with a fish.
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Nothing breeds faster than Crazy
TTC #1 - May 2010 - IUI #3: BFP
TTC #2 - May 2012 -IUI #2: BFP