My mother keeps insisting that I don't know what I'm talking about and that I should just let her move herself into our home for weeks on end.
I love my mom, but I think having her in our house nonstop, 24/7, with two new babies and hellified hormones is about the worst idea I've ever had.
We live 3 hours away from the closest family, so once H's paternity leave is over I'll be on my own. I don't expect it to be a cakewalk, but I'm hoping I can manage.
Did you have help when LO's arrived? If so, how much? How did you establish boundaries with others that were helping?
Can you manage with multiples by yourself?