Every time my DH and/or I have to explain what has happened to our baby to a stranger (i.e church member, friend of our parents, or acquaintance) they don't really know what to say so they say things like "God will help you through it"(not that I don't agree with that one), or "it will be ok", or "You are both still young so you will be ok"...WTH!??? How can you be so sure that we will have no trouble conceiving or that this will not happen again????? They kill me with that response "Oh you guys are still pretty young" I just want to say "SO, What does that mean!??!" I think that even one of my mom's co-workers made the same comment! )my mom works in an OB office!
Have any of you gotten the same remarks?
Re: "But you both are so young" ...so tired of hearing that.
YUP! Same here, we got pregnant so easily....and people say that all the time....SHUT UP!
I guess like the other poster said we need to just brush them off.
THIS!!! Or the variation of "Well at least you aren't infertile". Oh gee thanks that makes up for the two babies i've lost.
TTC since 5/2010
DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate
IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
Surprise BFP - 5/7/12
U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
BFP! 11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13
5/31/2013- My miracles arrived at 34w2d! Welcome to the world Harper and Nolan!
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