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Need to get this out somewhere, no one else understands

stephsteph77stephsteph77 member
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My due date was December 10th. I remember when I first got pregnant I was so excited to have to order another stocking from Pottery Barn Kids to match the one we have for DD. Yesterday I went to PBK to buy some discounted Halloween decorations for next year, and they had all their Christmas stuff out. It hit me, hard. The plans that I don't have anymore... It made me so sad! No one else in my family/group of friends has gone through a loss, so they don't understand how the little things still affect me. Anyway, thanks for listening. (edited title for typo)
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  • rvandiver0705rvandiver0705 member
    I am so sorry that hit you so hard.  (((Hugs)))  Hopefully you'll be buying another stocking for your next little one very soon!
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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member
    ((hugs))
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  • Happyfeet10Happyfeet10 member
    I'm so sorry, I'm sure that was really rough.  I have noticed the little things have made me more upset than I expected.  I was due December 1st and I really think the Holidays are going to be pretty somber this year. 
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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    I am so sorry for your loss ((((hugs))))
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member
    Reminders like that are so hard, especially since they hit you out of the blue. (((HUGS))) I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • PrincessDi80PrincessDi80
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  • jamilynn9jamilynn9 member
    I'm sorry.  I totally know the feeling.  Two years ago I bought any engagement ornament I could find.  Last year I got all the new home and first Christmas ones.  This year I was planning to buy the pregnant ones, but now, it's not happenning (yet).  I was in Kohls and fought back the tears in the ornament dept.
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  • b2b999b2b999

    I definitely understand where you're coming from. My EDD was December 22, so of course the first thing you think about with a December baby is Christmas. Now that all the Christmas stuff is going up in stores its hard not to think about it. 

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  • EclairAngstEclairAngst

    I know exactly what you mean.  The little things are the sneakiest and the most difficult.  ((HUGS))

     

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  • shanna82shanna82 member

    So sorry ((hugs))  I was due 12/12 so I know how you feel!

    I'm trying to be bah humbug this year, but I don't know if my family will let me.... 

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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    Hugs!
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  • keanaakeanaa member
    Oh I'm sorry that has to be tough but it is definitely understandable. I'm sorry you're going through this ((hugs))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs))

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  • christineandaaronchristineandaaron member
    ((hugs)) i know how you feel...little things like that affect me as well.
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  • ohashletohashlet member
    Hey Stef. I'm sorry sweetie. I've been trying to catch you on FB... :) Let's chat soon.
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  • inlovewithBinlovewithB
    I hate the "unexpected reminders"! (((hugs)))
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  • stephsteph77stephsteph77 member
    Thanks all. It's so nice to know at least someone understands!
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  • rguinn75rguinn75 member
    ((HUGS)) i was due the 11th and totally in the same boat.  I couldn't wait to get a new stocking and one of those cute little santa hats etc... Just not going to happen this year... sigh... Hopefully by next year we can do all those things we wanted to do this year....
    BFP #1 04/05/10 EDD 12/11/10 Missed M/C 7w found out at 12w5d You're so missed LO BFP #2 11/27/10 EDD 08/07/11.. Diagnosed with IC 03/17/11 Cerclage put in place 03/21/11 Madilynn Mae born 7/26/11
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  • linz85linz85 member

    My Due Date was to be 12/10 as well. The Christmas stuff is hitting me hard too. I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs.<3

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