May 2011 Moms

I don't get it

I never understand why people DD.  It really annoys me.
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  • It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.
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  • When I read "DD" I think Dear Daughter.  What does "DD" mean in this conversation?
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  • Where was there a DD?
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  • What got deleted? I miss everything
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  • imagesweetgirl82:
    When I read "DD" I think Dear Daughter.  What does "DD" mean in this conversation?

    DD= Dirty Delete

    They make a post, don't like what people say in the post and then delete it thinking that people are stupid enough to think that it must have all been a dream.

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  • Wait, what happened?  I didn't read any post that was DD worthy.  Did I miss something?!
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  • imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    What did you do now? 

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  • imagejc51723:
    Wait, what happened?  I didn't read any post that was DD worthy.  Did I miss something?!

    The SIL from hell post.

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    imagejc51723:
    Wait, what happened?  I didn't read any post that was DD worthy.  Did I miss something?!

    The SIL from hell post.

    Oh I didn't even open that one. 

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  • Yeah! I just noticed that one being gone.  What's the big deal? I missed all the responses after mine, but really... there was nothing bad in there.

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    imagejc51723:
    Wait, what happened?  I didn't read any post that was DD worthy.  Did I miss something?!

    The SIL from hell post.

    Shiz.  I never even read that one, because I figured it would be a bunch of mumbo. I guess I was right to some extent!

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  • imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    Man! I missed it.  What was your response?



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  • imageHeather & Nayt:

    imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    What did you do now? 

    I just told her that she sounded like a brat and needed to get over herself. You know, the truth. Guess she didn't like it?

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  • Ah, this makes sense.  I guess they think they get a "do over" unlike in real life.  To bad bump ladies never forget anything. :-)
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  • imageatlb685:
    imageHeather & Nayt:

    imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    What did you do now? 

    I just told her that she sounded like a brat and needed to get over herself. You know, the truth. Guess she didn't like it?

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.

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  • I read it but didnt reply. It seemed like a drama-rama type situation.

    Oh well to each their own. I think DD is dumb now but I confess I deleted a post when I first joined the bump! Wont do that again! lol

    I think its immature for women to get upset when someone else gets pg too. Its a baby and quite homestly the more the merrier right? I loved having a cousin the same age as I am, we are still the best of friends to this day..

    Oh well...

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  • imagepinkpear:
    imageatlb685:
    imageHeather & Nayt:

    imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    What did you do now? 

    I just told her that she sounded like a brat and needed to get over herself. You know, the truth. Guess she didn't like it?

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.

     

    I know!!! My SIL is pregnant too, so when I found out I was pregnant I decided right away to have an abortion- this is her time to be pg, and it would be rude of me to steal it. We'll try again once her baby is born. 

  • imagepinkpear:

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.

    When my SIL told me she was pregnant two weeks after me, I punched her in the face, the AW.  She just got pregnant because of me and she wasn't even on BC.  

  • imagepinkpear:

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.


    I mean, come on! Why else would someone get pregnant if not to steal your thunder? There is absolutely no other plausible explanation for why her SIL would get pregnant at this time. I mean, just saying. 

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  • OK so I usually don't chime in on the heated discussions but SERIOIUSLY!!!! I totally get not wanting your friends or close family to get pregnant, but to get mad at them I think is a little..... DRAMATIC. I mean seriously, if I got mad every time that someone was doing the same thing as me I would be way too busy holding grudges. I think this is a little childish.....

    IF someone close to me got pregnant I would be glad to have someone going through the same thing as me. Sure I wouldn't get all the thunder, but I'm up for a little good old fashioned humility.

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  • imagepinkpear:
    imageatlb685:
    imageHeather & Nayt:

    imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    What did you do now? 

    I just told her that she sounded like a brat and needed to get over herself. You know, the truth. Guess she didn't like it?

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.

    I...I...I think I love you. Srsly.

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  • What did I miss???
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  • imagepinkpear:
    imageatlb685:
    imageHeather & Nayt:

    imageatlb685:
    It's probably my fault. Every time I give it to someone straight, they seem to DD. Lame. I didn't even get to see the bitter end.

    What did you do now? 

    I just told her that she sounded like a brat and needed to get over herself. You know, the truth. Guess she didn't like it?

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.

     

    Another view:  I would be thrilled if a close friend or family member was pregnant at the same time as me.  It would be a great experience to share.  At the end of the day, everyone has their own life and no one else cares that you are pregnant as much as you do.  Also, I wouldn't expect others to plan their lives around mine.

  • I personally don't see anything wrong with it.  I me come on, everyone wants to experience the blessings of motherhood. Right now i have three co-workers of mine preggo and we were all so excited to hear about each other; and also, in my family I was born in August, and i had cousins born in June, July and September of the said year.  We were so happy to grow up together and we are all super close.
  • I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.
  • imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

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    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    I only read through the OP and didn't even comment. I'm sure calling someone the SIL from Hell could be a bit dramatic, but on a bad day I'm sure I could think I had the MIL from hell. 

    I wasn't even calling you out. :) To each their own. If you thought she was a brat then so be it. I really didn't take too much interest in post to be honest. 

  • imageatlb685:

    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    But But But... this is a place for LOVE, SUPPORT, PUPPIES and RAINBOWS!!!!!!!!! You are just a big meanie head!!! :p 

    Mlatch, seriously this is the bump, invest in big girl panties or you will hate it here.  

    Diabetic, 2IF, PCOS; blessed beyond words to be called "mommy" to Drew (6/30/09) and Alynn (5/16/11).
    Parenting author for Women of Worth. Mom Blogger and photographer.

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  • imageT3hKay:
    imagePinkBackPack:

    imagepinkpear:

    Whoa.  She is NOT a brat.  If anyone is a brat it's her SIL who decided to get pregnant because she is pregnant.  So not fair.  This is her turn to be pregnant.  Personally I've informed my whole family that everyone must refrain from sex until my child is born.  I don't want to risk anyone getting pregnant during this very special time for me.

    When my SIL told me she was pregnant two weeks after me, I punched her in the face, the AW.  She just got pregnant because of me and she wasn't even on BC.  

     

    Wait a min....seriously?

    No, I was not serious.  I knew my brother and SIL were trying and felt really bad when I told them I was pregnant because I knew they wanted a BFP so bad.

    I just don't understand how some women can get so upset at someone else's joy.   It drives me crazy.  During my 1st pregnancy I had several cousins and friends that were pregnant at the same time.  It was so much fun.

  • My aunt, cousin, and BFF were all pregnant when I was. My baby cousin was born 5 weeks before my son, does that mean I should give him up for adoption for daring to steal her thunder even though I didn't know she was pregnant when I got pregnant? My other cousins kid is 1 month younger than mine, what a ***. 

     

    FWIW, BFF did get pregnant on purpose the month after I did. Scene stealer. It was her 5th daughter. I had a son. I guess I won the "scene" after all.  

  • imageHeather & Nayt:
    imageatlb685:

    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    But But But... this is a place for LOVE, SUPPORT, PUPPIES and RAINBOWS!!!!!!!!! You are just a big meanie head!!! :p 

    Mlatch, seriously this is the bump, invest in big girl panties or you will hate it here.  

    I have plenty of big girl panties. I'm a size 12 thank you very much. :) lol

    Anytime you get a group of girls together you get rude along with the nice. I get that.

    I bow out gracefully for mentioning that anyone would be rude just for the hell of it. Even if I am sometimes. ;) 

  • imageMlatch:
    imageHeather & Nayt:
    imageatlb685:

    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    But But But... this is a place for LOVE, SUPPORT, PUPPIES and RAINBOWS!!!!!!!!! You are just a big meanie head!!! :p 

    Mlatch, seriously this is the bump, invest in big girl panties or you will hate it here.  

    I have plenty of big girl panties. I'm a size 12 thank you very much. :) lol

    Anytime you get a group of girls together you get rude along with the nice. I get that.

    I bow out gracefully for mentioning that anyone would be rude just for the hell of it. Even if I am sometimes. ;) 

    I claim the rude camp! But I promise I can be nice too. I just don't tolerate whiny brats. Or stupid people. Or liars. And I'm sure there are a few I am forgetting to mention...

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  • imageatlb685:
    imageMlatch:
    imageHeather & Nayt:
    imageatlb685:

    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    But But But... this is a place for LOVE, SUPPORT, PUPPIES and RAINBOWS!!!!!!!!! You are just a big meanie head!!! :p 

    Mlatch, seriously this is the bump, invest in big girl panties or you will hate it here.  

    I have plenty of big girl panties. I'm a size 12 thank you very much. :) lol

    Anytime you get a group of girls together you get rude along with the nice. I get that.

    I bow out gracefully for mentioning that anyone would be rude just for the hell of it. Even if I am sometimes. ;) 

    I claim the rude camp! But I promise I can be nice too. I just don't tolerate whiny brats. Or stupid people. Or liars. And I'm sure there are a few I am forgetting to mention...

    Well if that is your only criteria then I'm sure we can manage to get along. I do whine sometimes, but you can stab me in the face if it ever gets to be too much okay? lol 

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    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    I think that it is very nice that you are now issuing warnings.  See, there really is a little bit of puppies, rainbows, and support deep down inside inside of you.

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  • imagepinkpear:
    imageatlb685:

    imageMlatch:
    I really just saw the post as her trying to vent and get something off of her chest when I read it (that was before lots of responses). I don't understand why some people try to turn things into more than what they are. It seems like some people just want to be rude for the sake of being rude. Lame.

    Oh please. She said she had the SIL from hell. Wee bit dramatic, dontcha think? I was honest with her, she sounded like a brat. But you're right. I get off on being rude to random internet strangers that only deserve love and support Confused  Heads up-- you're next on my list.

    I think that it is very nice that you are now issuing warnings.  See, there really is a little bit of puppies, rainbows, and support deep down inside inside of you.

    This is just between us, but I actually dream about puppies every night. Don't tell anyone though, OK?

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  • imageMlatch:

    Well if that is your only criteria then I'm sure we can manage to get along. I do whine sometimes, but you can stab me in the face if it ever gets to be too much okay? lol 

    You, my friend, have got yourself a deal!

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  • I responded to that one and gave my nicest possible answer even though it was tough...
  • imageredaero:
    Other people being pregnant doesn't diminish my excitement about my own pregnancy.

    This exactly.  If it did, boards like this wouldn't exist.  Everyone here is all due within 4 weeks of each other and that is why we all came here in the first place.

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