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This honestly p*sses me off so much
jennylynne_01:
I'm glad that Colin is doing better. But is this how you spend what precious little hours that you do get with him? Bumping and causing trouble for others? We all know you're on here all the time, as evidenced by your numerous post that range from all hours of the day and night. Do you really want Colin to look back on his childhood and remember you always attached to a PC or iphone while all he wants is his mother that he hasn't seen all day? Sad, T, really effing sad. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Listen ladies. Yes, I'm an a*shole. I do it for my own entertainment because my job isn't demanding. While in the past I have spent time online while I was at home, I don't Bump or even surf the internet when Colin is awake.
To be candid, we go home, I put milk away. I load the sink with dishes (pumping and his lunch/snacks) and they sit there until 8:00 after he goes to bed. After the dishes I change my clothes and we play for about 20 minuets. Then I start his dinner. It's different every day - I either unfreeze something previously made or I make him something (like pasta or sweet potato fries, etc.) Then he takes about 20 minutes to eat and after dinner he goes in the tub because he's a mess. Sometimes I let him play while I pump next to the tub and other times he gets a quick 10 minute scrub down. After his bath I clean up the tub and we play for another 30 minutes before bed. He gets a bottle and then goes down. Always around 7:30-8:00.
Now please f*cking tell me how I have time to be online under multiple aliases causing trouble when I'm caring for my son on my own? Do you think I let him fend for himself and cook and bathe himself?
Right.
So for the last motherfuckinglasttime I'm not nemosucks or youannoyme. My screen names are always a dead giveaway.
Everyone has their opinions of other people, which is cool, cause you know, we're entitled. Like me or hate me, whatever I don't care.
But I am not a bad mother. Not even one tiny little bit. I give everything to that little boy so to be accused of spending all hours of the day and night online has sent me a little over the anger ledge.
Vent over.
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Re: This honestly p*sses me off so much
You don't need to justify yourself, Colin knows your a good mom
It took me a burned screen name and at least a year of Bumping time to learn this simple lesson.....
No one (and that includes T) owes anyone an explanation for how they live their lives, the opinions they have, or whether or not they're a good mother. You alone know what's in your heart.
When you allow internet strangers to affect the way you're thinking about yourself, it's time to step back, evaluate, and find a different way to react. Those of you who know me know I've been there, so I'm speaking from experience.
Thanks for the play by play.
If you were that confident in your mothering abilities, you wouldn't feel the need to explain yourself.
I just have to say..other than a few of the people that "call you out" no one really cares what/who you are like IRL. Most people just assume you are a normal mom. I don't care that you come on here & stir the pot, its Annoying yes, but really who cares.
I mean this in the nicest way possible... I never give you a second thought except if you post something & I assume most people think the same!
Dude, I'm 100% confident in my mothering abilities. The part that sucks is having to work 45+ hours a week and be away from him so much. That's why I spend all of my free time with him.
I'm not justifying. I'm explaining and offering insight to those who assume.
(c) Holly Aprecio Photography - Oct 2011
Lame come back.
T I'm glad your back
It hit a nerve to be accused of ignoring my kid.
B/C of your rep, people are going to say the stupidest/crudest things in order to get under your skin. Don't let them win by allowing it to bother you.
(c) Holly Aprecio Photography - Oct 2011
your rude to others so why can't ppl be rude to u? pretty lame how you post about a vent like this. yea there are some ppl that like you..but not everyone likes you. it's the internet big deal. get over it.
It hurts when someone strikes a nerve, doesn't it?
Funny how that works...
This x 5,000. Grow a pair or shut your mouth - you can dish it but can't take it?!
THIS!
Are any of us really that confident in our mothering capabilities? I mean, we all know that we aren't BAD, but based on how many "What are you doing about _______" or "Is your ______month old doing _______" posts there are, we all doubt ourselves quite frequently.
You know what? I'm not here all hours of the day. I work 7:45ish until 5 and then I pick him up. I spend every minute with him until he goes to bed around 7:30 or 8. Then I am in bed around 9 on most nights. Some nights I stay up until 10 or 10:30 to clean or make baby food.
I'm not any of those AEs. It's cool if you believe me or not. I don't sacrifice time with my son (which during the week isn't enough) to Bump. I am not invested in any of you people enough to sit on a computer or my phone and ignore my child. I walked away from that sh*t months ago.
Accuse me of being a bad mother all you want. I'm not. I'm a great mother. 100% of my time is invested in him. So f*ck off and have a fabulous day.
p.s. Get a job and contribute to society. B*tch.
Really? And you don't like being judged? Sounds to me like you do a great job at judging SAHM's. I was a registered nurse for years before I became a SAHM, I contributed then and contribute now by raising my beautiful daughter to turn out to be someone completely opposite of you. I lost total respect for you when you called another person's child ugly. You CAN dish out but can't take it. You're nothing more than an internet bully.
You know what? I'm not here all hours of the day. I work 7:45ish until 5 and then I pick him up. I spend every minute with him until he goes to bed around 7:30 or 8. Then I am in bed around 9 on most nights. Some nights I stay up until 10 or 10:30 to clean or make baby food.
I'm not any of those AEs. It's cool if you believe me or not. I don't sacrifice time with my son (which during the week isn't enough) to Bump. I am not invested in any of you people enough to sit on a computer or my phone and ignore my child. I walked away from that sh*t months ago.
Accuse me of being a bad mother all you want. I'm not. I'm a great mother. 100% of my time is invested in him. So f*ck off and have a fabulous day.
p.s. Get a job and contribute to society. B*tch.
Really? And you don't like being judged? Sounds to me like you do a great job at judging SAHM's. I was a registered nurse for years before I became a SAHM, I contributed then and contribute now by raising my beautiful daughter to turn out to be someone completely opposite of you. I lost total respect for you when you called another person's child ugly. You CAN dish out but can't take it. You're nothing more than an internet bully.
You know what? I'm not here all hours of the day. I work 7:45ish until 5 and then I pick him up. I spend every minute with him until he goes to bed around 7:30 or 8. Then I am in bed around 9 on most nights. Some nights I stay up until 10 or 10:30 to clean or make baby food.
I'm not any of those AEs. It's cool if you believe me or not. I don't sacrifice time with my son (which during the week isn't enough) to Bump. I am not invested in any of you people enough to sit on a computer or my phone and ignore my child. I walked away from that sh*t months ago.
Accuse me of being a bad mother all you want. I'm not. I'm a great mother. 100% of my time is invested in him. So f*ck off and have a fabulous day.
p.s. Get a job and contribute to society. B*tch.
Really? And you don't like being judged? Sounds to me like you do a great job at judging SAHM's. I was a registered nurse for years before I became a SAHM, I contributed then and contribute now by raising my beautiful daughter to turn out to be someone completely opposite of you. I lost total respect for you when you called another person's child ugly. You CAN dish out but can't take it. You're nothing more than an internet bully.
I don't question you being a good mom, i just question your sanity.