I have been dwelling on this for a while. Our child is going to have a lot of grandparents! DH Mom/Stepdad, DH Stepmom/Stepdad, and my dad.
What are some names to differentiate grandparents? Growing up I had my Grandma/pa P (Moms Maiden Name) and Grandma/pa J (Last Name). This is NMS for my kids, and I'm trying to come up with names.
I know there's Grandma/Grandpa, and Nana and Papa, but are there any other names that are somewhat familiar? We figure, we will call DH mom/stepdad Grandma/pa and his step parents Nana/Papa, but then that leaves nothing for my dad?
My dad's live in girlfriend babysits this little girl non stop that calls my dad "Papa", and it drives me nuts that another kids calls him that considering she's not family and my child was supposed to be the first one to call him papa or grandpa. So, I don't want LO to call him that, for my personal reasons.
So what's left out there? And for the record, I don't like Pappy, reminds me of this creepy show I watched as a kid and this old guys was "Pappy".
TIA
Re: Names for Grandparents?
My mother will be "mamaw [her name]". DH's mother will be "mamaw [her name]" and his dad will be papaw. My dad died in 2003, but I still want Sam to know about him, so I'll just refer to him as "papaw Robert" when I do talk about him. My grandfather died before I was born, and I always just knew him as "papaw Fred."
DH has a very close friend that helped raise him that he calls his aunt, but she will be "nana [her name]" instead of aunt to Sam.
Grandparents Names
I just googled "Cool Names For Grandfathers" and this came up. Lots of ideas, but I'm still not sure!
My mom is Nan and my dad is Pop.
My mil is Grandma and my fil is Pawpaw.
We have friends that have used the Mimi and Pepaw one.
I think it is totally up to you and your dh.
I am curious about what I am going to call my parents and BF's parents to my children... I guess I hadn't even thought of this before!!!
Anyway... my cousin's kids call my aunt Geemie (gee-mee).
Your LO will probably call them whatever they can at first and it might stick. We call DH's parents Grandma -first name and Grandpa -first name, but DD calls them Gunka and Bumpa. The other grandchildren, who are much older, have now taken to calling them those names as well.
This honestly isn't something I ever gave much though to. I guess I don't see why grandparents need their own special name. My mother (who really has no relationship with DD) does though, and wants to be called Lady LoLo (her name is Lois). Yeah, right. Not happening. DH and I almost pissed ourselves when she told us though, so now we refer to her as that amongst ourselves all the time.
The names for all of the grandparents in our family include:
Mamaw Kathy (my mom)
Mamaw Laurie (DH mom)
Papa (DH stepdad)
Grandpa (my dad)
Grandma Cindy (my stepmom)
Gigi (my grandmother)
Mimi (DH grandmother)
Mamaw Edna (DH great grandmother. who passed away earlier this year)
Our daughter came up with all of the names based on how she could pronounce them when she was little.
It's funny, as a kid I had Grandpa T and Grandpa M (last names) and I just called them Grandpa when I was with them, as far as Grandmothers, I just had Grandma and Great-Grandmother. The only other "grandparent" figure I had was my great-uncle who I call Pawpaw. Also have a Memaw now (Grandpa M's SO).
Unfortunately our LO will only have one set of grandparents (my parents) DH's parents both passed away before we were together. We will teach our children about them, and try to have them be as close as they can through stories and pictures, and visiting the cemetary. They will be called Grandma/Grandpa B. My mom and dad will be Grammie, and Grandpa. We have problems with lots of Great-Grandma's. We both have both our Grandma's still, so LO will have 4 great-grandma's. My mom's mother is GG, my dad's mother with be Great-Grandma M. DH's mom's mom will be Great Grandma S. and Dh's dad's mom will be Mam (family name for her... i don't get it) I know there are other names for grandpa's but they are typically more traditional based on a culture/nationality. I can't think of too many now but there is Opa and Oma, pawpaw, and thats all i can think of... sorry!
Kids sometimes develop their own names too... so you could always just let you're LO decide.
My parents are Abuelo and Abuela (Spanish for Grandparents), and DH's parents are Grandpa and Grandma.
Do you speak another language or identify with another culture that you could borrow names from...?
Married 8 years - Aug 23/08
DD - 6 years old, March 17/11
#2 due July 19th! (It's a boy!)
DD has
Grandpa Rich/Linda (paternal grandparents)
Nan and Grandpa (maternal grandparents)
My FIL wanted to be called Granddad, but I just couldn't remember to call him that, so she calls him Grandpa Rich.
DD came up with my mom's NN, Nan when she was just starting to talk. My mom likes it, because she had a hard time coming to grasps with the fact she was becoming "Grandma," and
We have a family friend whose Grandkids call him Pa.
I have no idea what we are going to do. I may have them duke it out!
I have friends who use grammy and papaw, nana, etc. I don't care what our child calls them at this point. I think it will be harder for names for the great grandparents to figure out.
I called my dad's parents Granny and Granddaddy and my mom's parents Grandma and Grandpa. Maybe your child(ren) will come up with names themselves?